The wrong opinion is considered that when choosing the potential darling of life, the man relies only upon feelings. An important factor, defining value of this girl in the man's life, its internal qualities and outlooks on life are. That to define it, the guy can arrange check to the lady.
There are several methods of studying qualities of the darling. And often girls do not even guess them.
The first and, perhaps, the most important check is a check on fidelity. The fidelity of the darling gives to the man of self-confidence. There are men consciously ask the acquaintances to flirt for his girl. Whether from that the lady will give in to courtings of other guys, the further relations with her satellite depend. And, in general, men very much watch closely communication of the darling with an opposite sex. The main thing in such situation to remain faithful to the choice.
Not less important criterion when choosing the companion is the intelligence of the lady. It is enough to start a conversation about meaning of life, and at once everything becomes clear. Whether she is capable to keep up the conversation or will instantly get bored. It is important to find the general subjects for a conversation, otherwise communication just will not develop.
The girl should not be silly. Except beautiful appearance of the guy interests also inner world of the lady. That it was not boring with the silent and uninteresting girl. Too clever the girl should not seem too, the guy near her will feel not comfortably. Guys look for moderately bright women, with interesting inner world.
If the man pursues the aims on the serious relations, then can arrange check on economy of the darling. It can concern as abilities to cook well and also its attitudes towards cleanliness. There is such category of men who attach huge significance to purity. They can specially examine ware and other other things in the house of the woman on purity check. If the darling is also placed on purity, as well as the man, means from them good couple will turn out. Check on behavior helps to understand how the girl can behave in various companies, about her addiction to addictions (alcohol and use of a mat in a lexicon). Whether this method allows to understand to the man his darling is capable to behave decently in society or it will be a shame to it with her behavior. Young people use all these methods of checks not just like that. Most likely, it is connected with the last unsuccessful relations. The man has to be sure of correctness of the choice, that he is ready to call this woman the wife.