Men and women different it is absolute in everything. It belongs as well to love. You for certain had to hear a saying: "The woman is auditory, and the man – eyes". Certainly, it is not necessary to perceive it too literally, but after all each loving woman should remember: to the man the special approach is necessary. He because of absolutely other physiology and psychology differently sees many things.
Instruction
1. Remember: it is useless to show tenderness when darling is really busy with something. For example, makes the quarterly report, talks to the chief by phone or prepares for a meeting with the client at which the question of the conclusion of large deal will be considered. This minute your gentle embraces supported with tender cooing: "Ah, my bear cub, I so love you", will not please him at all. More likely, will anger: "There is nothing to tell, found time!" If you want to please darling (and also yourself) – choose more right moment for manifestation of tender feelings.
2. Remember that everything is good moderately. For any woman to hear that she the best, favourite, beautiful, desired, etc. – the true pleasure. But do not wait that your man will repeat these words from morning to the night. It is not necessary to call him on work, passionately exhaling in a tube: "Well, tell once again as strongly you love me!" Believe, you will hear absolutely not that wanted. Especially, if it has just at this moment an important meeting.
3. If you really love the person – do not annoy him, demanding constant proofs of his love for you. Also you remember that men hate to repeat the same what there was a speech about. They prefer to prove love affairs, but not words.
4. Each normal man, even silent, quiet and phlegmatic, has vanity. Therefore the loving woman has to abstain from direct criticism of its acts, especially at strangers. If he really made something not so, made a mistake, was mistaken, point to him to an oversight alone, politely and delicately. Do not carry on a conversation sharply, in categorical and command tone at all. Remember: most of men very painfully react when women try to order them.
5. On the contrary, your praises and even flattery (moderately and on business) are capable to work wonders literally. Imagine, not only the fair sex loves compliments. You do not stint kind words, do not forget to thank the man for courtesies, gifts, the help with the house. For it it will be indisputable confirmation of sincerity of your feelings.
6. Well, also do not forget the old truth: "The way to heart of the man lies through his stomach". It will be very pleasant to your partner if the beloved prepares by the hands for him a refined dish.