In the relations between the young man and the girl the situation during which the guy understands that the relations need to be stopped is not excluded. However it is worth remembering that the possibility of casual meetings with the potential ex-girlfriend after parting is not excluded. Therefore there is a question: "How it is beautiful to leave not to remain enemies with the girl?"
Parting with the girl has to be the weighed decision
After acceptance of the final decision on parting with the girl, it is necessary to behave as a real man, not to follow the tastes of momentary emotions and thoughts. Of course, in some cases the situation which became the reason of the decision on parting is of great importance.
However it is impossible to work in a temper therefore at first it is necessary to counterbalance the internal state, and then it is necessary to make to the girl an appointment.
Coward and silly partings with the girl by SMS or e-mail look. It is only in exceptional cases admissible to report to the girl about the decision by phone. Also the easiest and popular way allowing to stop the relations with the girl is disappearance from her field of vision. The young man ceases to respond to messages and calls, frankly avoids meetings.
Such relations with time, of course, will stop. However it is worth thinking also of feelings of other person. The girl will worry and guess, than such reaction is caused. Most likely she deserves to herself respect and at least explanations. Another thing is that it is not obligatory to state the girl the real reason for parting if it can wound her. For example, in case the guy met other girl and fell in love. If the guy who made the decision to stop the relations with the girl, not against further joint companionship, then it is possible to write to the girl the letter. This option of parting will be very beautiful and romantic. An optimal variant for the guy to report about the decision to the girl, there will be an invitation in cafe where in a quiet situation they will be able to discuss a problem.
Leaving the girl, it is necessary to thank her
In all cases, reporting to the girl about parting by any of ways, it is necessary to be tactful, but persistent. It is necessary to thank the girl for the spent time. To note its pleasant qualities, lovely acts, the spent time in general. Special attention should be paid to the moment of further sense of guilt and experiences of the girl. It is known that the emotionality and impressionability at a female is rather developed. Therefore in order that the girl did not torment herself with questions and doubts on a subject: "What in me not so?", "Why I did not suit it?", "For what he threw me?" and others, it is recommended to refer to not similarity of characters. Also it is necessary to refrain from criticism and mutual reproaches because such parting will turn the parties into enemies. It is necessary to convince the girl that shortly she will meet the worthy and suitable it young man. It is worth avoiding false hopes and promises. Having said goodbye to the girl, it is not necessary to spend her time for useless expectations. Such behavior will be worthy and men's. Having implemented the provided recommendations, quite really to keep good relations with the girl, and leaving not to look the unpleasant and mean young man.