Education of children - hard process during which adults apply punishments. Any of methods have certain consequences. Psychologists allocate several main types of punishments.
Open aggression
Impact on children through aggression practices within centuries. At the same time it can be different types.
Physical aggression assumes drawing corporal punishments. The child is afraid of pain from blow, it forms a conditioned reflex to swing of the parent. Such actions always humiliate the identity of a small penis of family. It is proved that children who systematically were exposed to physical punishments are more inclined to violence.
There is also an aggression verbal. It excludes beating, but parents punish in this case through reproach and condemnation. The identity of the child constantly is exposed to negative assessment. The children who were influenced this type of education suffer from a low self-assessment and the increased uneasiness level.
Increase in a voice and expression of anger through shout – one more type of open aggression. Nervous breakdowns of parents promote development in the child of an inferiority complex. Besides, subsequently it loses fear of seniors, ceases to react to them as gets used to shout.
More loyal types of punishments
Restriction of freedom of travel serves as one of the most frequent examples of how parents of the offsprings punish. Many children as punishment are stood in "corner", locked in the room, forbid to walk. The child takes offense at it, feels helpless. Its dependence on the adult can play both a positive, and negative role: or he will begin to obey implicitly, or will go to a protest. Ignoring of the child can be more effective method, than any others. Children in such situation feel left, they lose a sense of security. Important in application of punishments of a such type to show that isolation is caused not by disgust for the child, and only indignation because of its act. Only in this case educational process will come to the end with success. The punishments based on material benefits were included into practice not so long ago. Having deprived of the child of sweets or pocket money, it is possible to achieve result. But you should not abuse such parental punishment, otherwise domination of adults will become harmful.
The punishments based on logic
The child has to understand relationships of cause and effect from now on not to make what he is abused for. Therefore it is important to show logic of the punishment. For example, one of such ways to inform of the meaning of their act children is kindling of sense of guilt. It needs to be initiated on a concrete example, telling the offspring about deeds consequences. It is important not to go too far in the emotional description and not to touch the identity of the child not to create at it negative attitude to parents and to itself. The best view of punishment, according to experts, the explanation is considered. Logical justification of an act forms sensitivity to results of act, it morally develops the kid.