In society the rule is accepted that on others misfortune of the happiness not to construct. However also the statement is right that the person is free to do that he wants. And if to take away the guy at other girl will not make special work, then it is possible, as the love was not there.
The man will not want to leave the woman if she seems to him best of all. Therefore you should become better, than she. For this purpose you need to learn preferences of the competitor, her tastes, style, a hobby. Besides, you should know the attitude of the young man towards these tastes. Surely there will be something that does not suit it, and you have to find out that it.
Communicating with the guy whom you are going to beat off, always listen carefully to him, talk to him about his problems, advise something. Communicate on its favourite subjects, support its interests. Thereby you win over it, he will consider that you perfectly understand it, unlike his real darling.
After you won over it and became with it friends, ask it to help you with some simple and insignificant business. He will feel the man near you.
After that you can accurately begin to make advances to it. Accidental touches, easy blows it can do, etc. The main thing is not to go too far. If there is a chance to make so that someone fought his woman off it, it is possible to use also such method. Then he either will become free, or will need your friend advice and support. In this case you can take its position, condemning behavior of his girl. For example, you can tell: "I, of course, cannot condemn an act of your darling, but on her place I never would answer courtesies of other man if at me is loved". Attentively study his preferences concerning clothes style and appearance of girls. If it is necessary to change image, make it. If the guy quiet, quietly talks, it is not necessary to shout near him. If he, on the contrary, active, be the same, you do not sit the meek creature. Adapt to it, but do not repeat all. If you could interest the elect, became that the girl to whom he can trust and with whom he has much in common, it is necessary to make a syllogism. Disappear for a while, go for a week to other place, do not catch sight to it, let he will lose you for a while. Or show to the young man that you have one more boyfriend who gives you flowers, shows an affection. In these cases your man has to understand that you are dear to him, to feel that are necessary to it, and he will try to obtain your arrangement. Try to make so that he estimated your culinary art. Invite him to some holiday, prepare something unusual. Show that you can bigger, than just fried eggs or pasta. At the same time be modest, you say that it is not difficult to you to cook tasty dishes at all and you do it quite often. Food is very important for a male. Therefore you will rise in his estimation at once. When your relations reach the first kiss, put in it all the heart and soul. During a kiss think of how you fallen in love it as you wish to be near it, to feel its heat. And then try to forget about this love that at this moment there passed the category like "I did not understand what now occurred". Show it that from his kiss you turn the head. He will want to kiss you again to feel the power over your feelings.
When business reaches sex, make it the best in his life. Show that you have a high potential in a variety of the sexual relations. Sex is very important for men too.
If you managed to achieve his love and you became couple, never behind it run. Never you become soft, appeasable, ready for everything that he wants. Yes, for a while it very much will bring together you. But then it will become boring for your guy, and he will begin to look for the new passion which will include his emotions and emulative spirit.