The most part of free time people are busy with thoughts of how to improve themselves. Numerous human complexes are the reason for that. Complexes raise at the person doubts and diffidence, irrespective of age and sex.
In terms of psychology the majority of complexes originate at early age. The fact is that children all what was seen is frequent and heard perceive into the account. In that a considerable part of fault of parents who in a pursuit of feeding and dressing children, often simply consider it unnecessary to praise the child. But the fault is always followed by strict punishment.
Of course, there are complexes which are got by the person during life proceeding from reaction him on opinion of people around.
Types of the complexes which are found at the person
According to experts in the field of human psychology it is possible to allocate two main types of complexes:
- Inferiority complex.
- Superiority complex.
These are two contrasts and to choose, what is better or worse, it is impossible. Both complexes are a problem for any person and interfere him with harmonious existence in society.
Inferiority complex
The inferiority complex is expressed that the person often thinks of himself much worse, than he is and is almost always dissatisfied with neither the physical and external data, nor all what it does. The people's psychology with an inferiority complex is always aimed at self-abasement (I am the worst why to me to live, to nobody with me it is interesting). Such people behave is held down, worry at the slightest pretext and live in censure expectation.
Superiority complex
The complex of superiority is shown in the person by the fact that in consciousness the thought that it is better than others dominates and has superiority rights. Such people can be recognized on a manner to speak, look with superiority on people around. At any opportunity they will let know to the interlocutor that he "the second grade". These people seek to look good, surround themselves with good things.
These are examples of complexes in a "clean" look though in everyday life they can say not so brightly and unambiguously. But it is not the only types of human complexes, but only two main groups in which there is a weight more of versions.
For example, it is possible to carry such known complexes to the first group as:
- fault complex when the person feels in everything and before all guilty;
- complex of physical defects (small breast, big nose, short legs, big growth, excess weight …);
- complex of the unfair relation (the whole world to me is unfair, nobody appreciates me on advantage);
- the Cinderella's complex (the passive relation to the private life waiting for the prince);
- lie complex (what the person would not be told, he thinks that to it lie on purpose not to offend).
Examples of the second group of complexes are:
- the excellent student's complex (I the best, I have to do everything better than others, all my awards);
- Napoleon's complex (want to win the whole world, to achieve success to be winners on advantage);
- complex of the help to others (my such destiny that I have to help all, even to the detriment of myself);
- the beauty's complex (I am very beautiful or it is beautiful, I am the best of all, nobody me is worthy, near me all feel defective).
The list of complexes very big and, probably, will never be complete as people are inclined to ingenuity even in the complexes.
How to get rid of complexes?
As complexes disturb full-fledged life, there is a question as to get rid of them. In psychology there is very acceptable and easy way – to recognize a problem and to begin to work on it. To understand itself, to raise the self-assessment, to reconsider a view of the world around. And if a situation really serious, and the person brought himself to what practically does not leave the house, it is necessary to ask for the help the expert and to receive medical treatment.
Remember that each person on the earth is individual, unique and beautiful …
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