Quite often there are such situations when the person faces the consumer relation, and here what does it mean - will understand further.
Here, for example, there is such type of people when remembers existence, so-called friendship, only when it is favorable. That is, the consumer relation is in own way use of other person in the mercenary purposes.
Today it is necessary to face the consumer attitude towards people very often. But most often it happens so that some disagreements occur between the man and the woman.
Consumer attitude towards the woman
Some women, quite often ask a question why some are lucky more, in what their merit. No, they did not do anything special. The reason is in their men. How the man treats the woman, it is possible to allocate three types of the relation:
- Judge. The man cares for the beloved. Treats her with tenderness. To such man it is very important that his woman looked for all 100% therefore he has no anything against darling strives for perfection. No, it does not say that the woman surely lives off the man, she can be and independent of him. Such man perceives queen as expensive picture, admires it and admires.
Again, it does not say that this woman does not love anybody except herself and does not spend time for housekeeping. No, she just is not accented on house and household problems. And her partner not from those who will impose her a heap of duties. He also can quite cope with many affairs.
- Democrat. Such man respects tastes and preferences of the woman even if he not always agrees with them. He will not begin to awake her since morning a bit earlier on the day off that she made to it a breakfast, and will patiently wait for her awakening. He can roast fried eggs, to make sandwiches – it is ready to surprise the beloved.
Perhaps, he will not extol the woman on a pedestal and to lie at her legs, but if suddenly she decides that it needs a new sweater, then it to it, most likely, will be bought.
In such relations both partners care about each other and do not shift a duty. Just everyone performs that job which at it well is got.
Such man understands what the woman too of people and her needs to be respected. Concerns many women why so different men? Here and there is nothing to guess: to all fault education of mother. As mother will bring up the son, so he also will treat women.
- Slaveholder. Such man has consumer relation to the woman, he considers her the servants. He is concerned only by a house order, food in kitchen and the ironed clothes. Does not concern this man how his wife looks and that she carries. Concerns him more that there was no dust on a case, and the fact that the spouse goes in a dressing gown full of holes – and is fine! To his woman to spit too as she looks, and all from the fact that it just does not have time for itself. That is male slaveholder does not see the woman in the partner, he sees in her the slave who is carrying out all his whims.
Unfortunately, but also at many women in the modern world, the consumer attitude towards men. Some do not even hide it and say that they will not build the relation with the man which has no apartment in the center and expensive car.
It should be noted that such attitude towards the man will not bring anything good. People are happy when they make others happy. If to give love, tenderness, to support, then you become happier from it. If the woman demands something from the man all the time, then once she will be sincerely exhausted, so is unfortunate.