Many parents often ask a question: how it is correct to punish not to do harm to mentality of the child? Physical punishment is considered inhumane, but also a word it is possible to do considerable harm. The subject of ways of punishment in the course of education is always relevant. Physical abuse is denied because it generates only a set of fears at the child, but not due respect for parents.
And still children should be punished since it forms at them clear ideas what is possible and that it is impossible and also understanding that it is good and bad. But it is necessary to do it truly.
Restriction of biological needs of the child is unnatural. It is impossible to leave it without lunch or a dinner and the more so all day to force the child to study only lessons.
It is necessary to create something like the set of rules. The punishment measures taken against any given types of violations will be stated in it (from small to serious) from the child. And it is natural, it is necessary to bring them to the attention of the child.
Parents have to be fair not to lose prestige and respect, otherwise the child can nurse a grievance at adults.
If in family it is more than one child, then measures of punishment for all have to be identical without any exception, otherwise at one of children the inferiority complex can develop.
If parents promise to punish the child for any action, then by all means it is necessary to keep a word because in the future the child will not perceive your words in seriousness.
Do not label on the child at all and do not call it – it humiliates the dignity of the kid.
Never you shout at the child. Children can draw attention of adults with the actions and acts. Therefore just quietly explain to the baby that nobody will communicate with it if he continues to behave badly. Hard words or shout can lead to the fact that the child will be closed in himself. It is necessary to be the friend to the child that he knew with whom he can share the intimate thoughts and desires. Try to apply restriction of the movement in punishment: to stand in the corner or to sit on one place. And at a situation of punishment it is necessary to know that punishment should not undermine authority of parents in the opinion of the child.
Replace a phrase "you bad" on "you badly made". So the child will understand that he is still loved, despite the actions. It is impossible to punish for yesterday's ill effects.