The physiology and the nature push people on creation of the relations for the basis of strong full-fledged family sooner or later. At someone it manages to be made quickly, and someone only fills cones and steps on the next rake. Ideally, of course, it is necessary to study on others mistakes. So, we will sort as ideal development of the relations between the man and the woman has to proceed.
Development of the love relations: councils
Not to hesitate to approach parents behind council, they bad will never wish. If you hesitate to approach parents, then you can ask council the close friend to whom you will be able to trust and speak, listen to his story of development of the relations and draw conclusions for yourself. But you should not listen implicitly to council of everyone, kind of situations did not resemble, all of them equally happen to different people and the outcome can be various.
Psychology of development of the relations between the man and woman
The early sexual relations are not recommended to young women up to 16 years, the partner kind of did not insist. If the man lays down any conditions: "If you love me, you will make it", "Let's make it or we will leave" and there is a mass of ultimatums which they can put. And so, know, the man loving you will never lay down conditions, he will wait when the woman is ready to it.
Especially young men seldom think of contraception that leads to various venereal diseases which can be transmitted sexually and also unplanned pregnancy. At early age, 13-16 years, an organism of the woman are not ready to incubation of the child at all. Different negative consequences, including a lethal outcome are not excluded. But also absolutely it is impossible to avoid the relations at this age too, the sensuality arises at this particular time, and the woman deprived of caress of the man can become frigid at all.
Student's years — the most favorable time of origin of the serious relations. During this period many men and women already get family, give birth to children. At this time there are many quarrels between lovers because it is difficult to combine rushes of feelings and study. It is necessary to try to understand each other and to make a compromise, only thus it will turn out to keep love and good relations in couple.
Creation of family — one of difficult stages in the relations. When couple has a child, it is very difficult to behave and not to break the friend on the friend. There is a lot of responsibility, sleep debts and a heap of claims on both sides. Learn to listen to each other, to make concessions. The man has to understand that at the woman already heavy emotional a state after pregnancy, and with it to be softer and more careful. The woman, in turn, has to give vent less to the negative emotions and understand that appearance of the child the same stress and for the man. So that the relations between the man and the woman developed correctly, parents have to give more to time to issues of sex education, and at schools lessons, both for boys, and for girls, visually showing consequences of early sex life have to be conducted.