In each family there are disagreements between children and parents. Still yesterday your child wanted to receive mother's kisses, and today his not so benevolent mood. And here it is necessary to try not to break for offense and not to pass to shouts, slaps and other. As hysterical shouts and hysterics do not decorate any mother and also do not do happier than the child. It is necessary to try to resolve this issue in a different way.
That the child understood you, talk to him so that his eyes were flush with yours. Ask for a start a question of what actually interests it at the moment, and try not to turn a conversation into rigid interrogation, refrain from desire to condemn, criticize what interests and it is expensive to the child for this period of time.
Contacting to the child, respond to his answers, comment on them. Ask questions about a subject. Do not allow at all that your dialogue broke if you actually in fact want to come to the general opinion with the child and that there were as little as possible disagreements.
One more mistake of parents is that when at communication with the child the favourite expressions which took roots in a lexicon are said. It is possible to carry to them: "... the most part of life is lived. I understand much better as it is worth arriving in any given situation". In that case, parents have to think that that period of time left, the world changed, and in this new modern world to survive and achieve some progress, it is necessary to arrive not as 5, and even 15 years ago. Everything changes every second.
The child who was born in modern times, not in it in what parents developed and grew adapts to the new world. Modern children know how to adapt and survive in the new world to feel comfortably. And the paramount task of parents is to be nearby if they need the emotional help. In that case, they have to embrace and show thereby that the family is near that children can lean on love and support.
Give the chance to kids to study to count on itself. Allow the daughter and the sonny to begin with the childhood to study on the mistakes. It will give already at early age to the child of self-confidence.
Of course, parents should work to find such format of communication with the child who would suit members of all family. To learn patience and be not quick-tempered when they do not understand something, spoil or confuse. Do not spend time for reproaches and notations. Unfortunately our children grow very quickly. And you will remember time spent together with big warmth and tenderness soon.