Many children in certain age have idols in whose creativity they with enthusiasm are interested. They can imitate it in everything. Usually it occurs at teenage age. It is connected with the fact that in this period it is very important to children to belong to some group of people. Communication becomes the main value.
Parents in that case can arrive differently. Someone does not pay attention to hobbies of the children. Someone laughs and plays a trick. Some parents support children in their hobbies, and some furiously protest. Some lines of conduct of parents as a result lead to the conflict, loss of trust from children.
If parents do not perceive hobby of the child seriously or strictly forbid all manifestations of hobby, such behavior parents kind of belittle the teenager and do not recognize behind it the right to choose the interests. Naturally, in reply from the teenager it is not necessary to wait for anything positive. At this age the child becomes a personality with the opinion on any question, it forms outlook, own circle of contacts. Also it is necessary to respect this aspiration.
But also not to notice hobbies and to pretend as if absolutely nothing means, it is impossible. Some hobbies can really be dangerous to the child or people around. It is necessary to watch carefully whether turns innocent hobby with something or someone into fanaticism and a mania. Otherwise, it is possible, it is necessary to address experts as independently it will be difficult to cope with a similar problem.
Parents should keep trusting relationship with the child, to be interested sincerely in all new that occurs in his life. To ask, but it is not importunate and not in the form of exacting interrogation. If good relations are kept, then the teenage age together with all his hobbies and distortions will be successfully overcome by family without loss of nerves and mutual love and respect. Most often the fanatical interests of the child pass together with teenage age. And it is quite logical: to the forefront there is a self-determination and self-realization. Belonging to group recedes into the background. The main thing that is required from parents in the most hard times – to remain quiet in any situation and to support the child. Then any troubles and disagreements will pass, having left only a reason for the memoirs raising a smile.