The family plays a major role at education of the child. What he will receive here at small age will affect its character, a way of life, habits, etc. For this reason parents need to use the best efforts in order that the family as the developing environment for the child positively affected him.
The kid constantly is in the bosom of the family, he sees everything that occurs in life of his parents. He as if the little monkey, models behavior of adults. If mother constantly swears at the father, the kid will perceive it as norm. Do not you want your child to think that the conflicts — quite everyday occurrence in family? When the kid grows up, he will also swear at the soulmate.
Therefore it is important to set the child only a good example. All people close to it (father, mother, girls, grandmothers, sisters, brothers) have to love it and care for it. Family — collective which builds up character of the baby. It is impossible to set it a bad example at all.
How to make so that bad impact of family was as little as possible had on the child? Be patient. For example, if you — the violent person who in each occasion begins to sort out the relations with other people try not to do it at the child. The baby has to see quiet parents who do not quarrel, do not shout, do not fight, and love the kid and surround him with heat and care.
Councils
You have to show to the child that in their family there are family values: mutual understanding, mutual assistance, continued support from outside each other. Create around it the atmosphere of heat and love — put in a basis of his future life only kind and light. You see off time with the child as much as possible, talk to him. The baby has to feel a part of family, the person, important for you. You go with him to the park, go out of town on the nature, have dinner in cafe — not very well what occupation you will choose. The main thing — give as much as possible joy each other. Quietly react to its pranks, disobedience. Shout all of you equally will achieve nothing, will only do irreparable harm to the child. Try to explain quietly to the kid that he did wrong. Embrace him and tell that you love. Establish family traditions. For example, organize picnics outdoors on the days off, do festive dinners, you sit all together in front of the TV in the evenings. It very much brings together among themselves all family members. Respect each other. It is not necessary to sort out the relations at the child. Be better closed in other room and not with voices raised discuss problems. If suddenly you swear with the kid, through short time reconcile with it. Embrace him, tell that you love. Only strong people can recognize the mistakes. So, you will set a good example to the baby.