The family for the man, is a continuation of its sort. Making the family, the father fully realizuat the machismo. The woman in marriage it is unconditional, proves to be first of all as mother. Whatever different the man and the woman were, they want one – happy and long family life. But often even in good families there come crises. Very first is an appearance of the child. What to do that disagreements did not lead to a divorce?
The main changes happen in the woman. Long pregnancy and childbirth not always take place easily therefore at the time of the birth at the wife the fatigue already collects, and further it is only heavier. The great influence is had also hormonal splashes, many men they awfully irritate and she is not glad to it. Show patience.
Childbirth affects also appearance of the woman, a body any more not such as was earlier. If it is the first pregnancy, usually over time it recovers. But in the woman fears arise that she will not be desired for the husband any more. In this situation the man has to show the spouse that it not so that he also loves and wishes the wife.
The irritation to the man often grows in the woman. The spouse is tired, now she had a whole bunch of new obligations, and the husband, generally helps nothing to it. Here it is worth beginning to argue sensibly. First, the man works all day, he cannot but be tired, secondly, not all men know how to approach the child and that with it to do. Here mother have to be more patient. She needs to talk to the spouse and to explain what he could help with.
After the birth of the child, changes happen also at the man. Most of men even during pregnancy has a fear to lose the wife. Not in that, the plan that there will be something during childbirth, and in what to it will have no time for it. Men lack attention too! Try to talk to the spouse on this subject. Most likely, in the first month after the delivery to be chosen somewhere together will not leave. Be not upset. Always there is an opportunity to give pleasant joint party of the house. Ask relatives to look after the baby literally a couple of hours and spend two of them, for example, behind viewing the movie.
The secret of happy life, is extremely simple – learn to understand each other, and in some situations, even to suffer. Do not pull all blanket on yourself, to equally hard both spouses.