Girls know that men want to see near themselves beautiful and clever women. Some people claim that guys prefer that the girl sometimes was weak, and to it there is the explanation.
Why men like weak women?
Men by the nature are getters and defenders. They express the love not as it is done by women. If women, showing the feelings, try to surround the beloved with attention and care, at guys it is shown absolutely differently. As Steve Harvey wrote in one of the books, the men's love is shown in three components: statement, providing and protection. If your soulmate treats you sincerely, he will surely say to all people around that you are his woman. Besides, he wishes to provide you, and not only financially, but also to give you any other support. which in its forces. He can not pay to you repair of the car, but will surely find that person who will give you a good discount. The third component of men's love - protection. Men want the girl to be behind it, absolutely safe. If his lady herself is able to take care of herself and has huge physical or spiritual power and it will frankly show, he will just feel unnecessary. For this reason guys prefer to see near themselves weak girls.
Whether the woman is obliged to be weak?
That the girl was happy near the beloved, she not necessarily has to show the weakness. However she needs to let the man know that independently she will not be able to cope with all the problems and that support from her darling after all is necessary to it.
Explain to the guy that you need him, his protection and the help, let he will feel that he is necessary for you. It will raise its self-assessment, and he will desperately aspire to that you did not need anything. If you begin to dominate, your relations will quickly end as near you your man will not feel self-sufficient and full. Be more cunning and cleverer. Even if you are able to cope with all difficulties, it is not obligatory to speak about it to the soulmate. You never have to force the guy to do something in your interests. You are faced by a task according to which you are obliged to make so that he thought that its actions are only his desire. Let him consider himself irreplaceable and invaluable then you will be happy near such self-sacrificing defender.