Many couples mistakenly consider passion which flashes between the man and the woman at the very beginning of the relations, true love. However as soon as the romanticism leaves and the first difficulties in the relations begin, lovers consider that feelings passed, the love ended. Actually true love cannot end just like that, it means that it simply also was not.
Passion or rose and candy stage
When the man and the woman only fall in love each other, in their organisms there are impassioned chemical reactions. They see the world around in bright iridescent colors. They look at the partner and notice in him only what is wanted to be seen during this magic period of love. People stay kind of in a condition of drug intoxication and cannot adequately assess a situation.
Satiation, sobering up
The rose and candy stage in the relations is succeeded by the sobering up moment. The avalanche of emotions begins to cease gradually and points through which lovers watched at each other, any more not such pink earlier. The person begins to estimate more soberly the partner and there comes the period of revaluation of values. Now you begin to trust more each other and behave more naturally.
This stage is characteristic practically of all long relations. At the rejection moments between people quarrels begin. Now lovers on the contrary - begin to concentrate the attention on each other shortcomings. Mutual cavils and charges often sometimes lead to parting, but if to gain strength and to begin to work on the relations then inevitably there will come the following, quieter stage in love.
Quarrels between lovers continue, but they have no fatal character any more. Quarrels come to an end, and the relations are again restored. Partners gradually learn to understand and accept each other with all shortcomings. Understanding and worldly wisdom comes.
Respect and call of duty
It is a final stage of a rose and candy stage and the first stage of true love. From mutual respect the real deep feeling is born. Egoism. Inherent in people, passes into the background and lovers already begin to think as couple. Now they a thicket begin to think of the partner and try to make him happier.
Lovers already communicate with each other as the true close friends. They trust each other intimate secrets and share pressing problems, trying to find their solution together.
Very few people have such happiness in life – to feel true love in family life. The love cannot arise accidentally and suddenly. It is gradually cultivated for years and passes a set of difficult vital tests.