The sphere of household communication is a many-sided process of communication of people on the street, communication in family, transport and other public places. There are rules and the bans as such interaction of people can be as effective, and to lead unexpectedly to the conflict. How to make communication pleasant and to observe simple, but important rules of household communication?
So, communication on the street means the informal relations between speaking and takes place within household subject (talk about the nature, weather, the power, etc.). Too most concerns communication in shop. The topic of conversation plays not an unimportant role as because of it if it is chosen incorrectly, scandal can burst in the given types of communication. From there is the first rule: topic of conversation has to be interesting to both parties.
The second: it is not necessary to get into a dispute and to insist on the if your opponent is not ready to accept, or to share your point of view.
The third: you monitor nonverbal messages of the interlocutor which will indicate to you his true relation to your conversation.
The fourth: do not break personal space of the interlocutor.
The fifth and the last: household communication is an art to operate itself and people around in any given circumstances. Study and you will find a common language with any person! Success of communication depends on your ability in time to correct the speech, behavior and to understand features of people, including national.
Features of communication in family
As it was already told above, communication in family also belongs to the sphere of household communication. It represents the easy communication of family members based on the related relation and means maintaining the general life, material and moral mutually responsibility.
What there can be rules and consequences in case of their non-compliance here?
The culture of communication in family is under construction on the skills received by spouses earlier in a native home. Depending on the received family education, parents with love and trust treat the children or on the contrary, show nonparticipation and cruelty. In the first case the child will trust the parents, it will create self-confidence, the positive relation to the world around, and the main thing – he will feel favourite and necessary. The second case by all means will lead to mistrust, disobedience, the conflicts in family and with friends. At the child the negative perception of the world leading to imbalance, aggression will be formed.
These are not all problems of communication arising in family. The intra family relations are built by two persons who on the example kind of show to children what has to be family. Communication of the house is an important component of formation of the personality, exactly here we learn to endure, share the most intimate, to solve together problems, to rejoice to progress, to help each other, etc. The modern institution of the family is a little similar to those relations which were represented in former times. Then communication in family had confidential, spiritual and emotional character and were under construction on traditions and norms of that time.
Now communication in family represents more often a certain partner union where people live with each other, trying to be in time behind promptly changing world "on the fly" solving household problems, problems of education of children and other. In a pursuit of the benefits, we become intolerant, irritable and we forget about how emotional and spiritual support is important for the healthy relations. Therefore the communication psychology in family has to be formed by the following rules:
- Mutual respect and mutual understanding.
- Trust and support.
- Derogations from individual requirements for the benefit of the general.
- Joint education of children and participation in their life.
- Development of a spiritual unification between family members.
- Finding of a compromise at conflict resolution.
- Absence, or minimization of psychological tension, etc.
Remember that the harmonious relations affect attitude, mental your health and your children. Each person has scales on which one bowl your happy family, on another a pursuit of the civilization benefits. And the last should not outweigh.
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