is possible to call today's rhythm of life of most of the working people softly mad. Constant haste, eternal trips, a lot of papers, affairs, acquaintances, transactions, and is only work. And how house and family? What to do? It is necessary to choose career or work... Or nevertheless it can be possible to cope somehow with such loading and all to be in time?
Our answer — it is possible! For this purpose it is worth acquiring only several enough simple rules and to adhere to them.
- Rule first. If there is something that can be not done — do not do it. From all affairs which you should make throw out the most useless, do not postpone, namely get rid of them. If you constantly put something unnecessary away for later only to remember it and by that to plunge itself into a stress. And if you just throw out these affairs from the list — you will save yourself from excess cares.
- Rule second. Do not undertake to do at all that someone had to make another. Why to complicate the life someone's problems. You and have enough the with the head.
- Rule third. If there are such affairs which someone can execute instead of you another — do not do them. Divide duties in family and whenever possible at work. Your husband can wash the dishes, you have no need to do this constantly most. But this rule does not say that you need just to ask relatives to do everything for you and to roll on a sofa. Not at all. Just you should agree to carry out some affairs serially.
- Rule fourth. Always undertake tasks which can teach you to something. And the main thing — execute them. Everything that contributes to your development brings you only benefit. But do not undertake unrealizable affairs. Let that person who can perform such task be engaged in such affairs.
- Rule fifth. Always have border in the possible number of the planned affairs. Before entering something new in the list, estimate it, think whether you will manage to cope with something except everything that already is in the list if is not present — think what it is possible to refuse. Your list put — as a suitcase. You cannot push boundless quantity of things in a suitcase. Such moment comes that more it is already impossible to put. Then it is worth getting from a suitcase something, something less important and to put something more important.
- Rule sixth. Divide all the affairs into categories: urgent and difficult (tasks at work which do not suffer delays), very important, but not urgent (washing, cleaning, making an appointment to the doctor), small and not so important (to make manicure, to call the girlfriend). Appropriate to each category some color. And further in the notebook with the list of affairs paste the affairs the categories written on stickers of color corresponding to which business belongs. Executed business — threw out a sticker. Everything is simple. And you carry out affairs in process of their importance. Here to you and key to success. These rules will help you to structure all you need to do is that to forget nothing.
Follow these golden rules and at you surely everything will turn out.