According to stereotypic opinion, in the relations women, in any way not men are considered as manipulators. The cunning and ability to manage gradually decisions is exclusively female weapon. But it not absolutely so. Actually, all people, regardless of the sex, to a greater or lesser extent are manipulators. It more likely property of character, than sexual characters. So men too quite often manipulate representatives of weak. But how men manipulate women what methods and tricks they at the same time use?
As men manipulate women: psychology
- Feeling of pity. The most widespread option is a game on maternal feeling of pity and care. Of course, as well as any person, the man has the right to be tired, has the right to some weaknesses and to care manifestation. But the man cannot allow too to relax and begin to manipulate by means of this feeling of pity. All have problems and to ache about them constantly, demanding caress or something else as demulcent – not the best exit.
- Compliments. The trouble-free way of how to manipulate the woman by means of words, is, beyond all doubt, compliments. If the man begins too strongly and to be sprayed persistently in flatter comments, then it is worth treating more attentively what he tells, and it is reasonable to filter it. The same concerns also accurate, gallant and elaborate compliments which are so graceful that delight. Most likely, such compliments are thought in advance over, and, respectively, not absolutely sincerely.
- Complexes. Saying about how the man manipulates the woman who was fallen in love with him, it is necessary to mention so-called cultivation of complexes. For example, the man pays attention to light completeness of the darling or her inability to cook well and so on. Maybe it that some positive sides of character are lit with the man from the unprofitable party, turning into shortcomings. And as a result all this comes to an end with a phrase that he and such loves it, with all imperfections. And the woman as a result has complexes because of which she becomes attached stronger to the man as considers that such it is definitely not necessary to anybody any more.
- Intelligence. Quite often happens so that the man tries to crush the intelligence and knowledge the woman. But actually, really clever person will never be proud of the knowledge thus. On the contrary, he in an unostentatious form will share them, but not to try to influence.
- Lie. Well and, of course, the man manipulates feelings of women by means of lies. As, however, and women manipulate also men. The lie can be various. Providing the imaginary choice from two evils, rendering pressure, eternal inventions, obviously inveracious information on or the feelings.