Acquaintance on the Internet, on the one hand, becomes simpler some raid of anonymity, but nevertheless for successful communication it is necessary to know some subtleties. Article is devoted to secrets of fruitful communication with girls on the Internet today.
Features of acquaintances on the Internet
Acquaintance in Internet network has the specifics: for people constraining or limited in time virtual communication considerable plus.
There are also other advantages, also as well as shortcomings:
Advantages |
Shortcomings |
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Saving of time |
The risk to run into speculators |
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The lack of visual contact reduces constraint |
The lack of real-life communication disturbs adequate assessment of the vis-a-vis |
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An opportunity to receive some data on an object before acquaintance |
Data on the page are inveracious, the photo is not true |
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There is a possibility of the choice, an opportunity to stop communication |
Big risk instead of acquaintance to receive trolling |
Whether you know? The concept social network initially with the Internet had nothing in common. The sociologist J. Barnes, for definition of group of people with common interests thought up the term.
Types of social networks
Floating around the Internet there is a set of social networks in which dating sites it is possible to get confused. The most popular and the resources visited today:
- VKontakte of 2006. The website for communication where it is possible to find old acquaintances, thanks to advanced search or to find new. The tape of the website displays hobbies and news of the person that allows to recognize him closer and easier to start acquaintance. The network allows to acquire, except personal contacts, business contacts, to place advertizing and posts.
- Schoolmates. Project of 2006 of release. Free registration, convenient interface, large number of headings and services, both paid, and free. Possibility of communication with any place in the world, convenient service of search of familiar people. The website offers a great number of the groups uniting people on any interests, entertaining communities.
- Dating site eDarling. It is founded in 2008 in Germany, the audience already makes more than 13 million users. Aimed at serious acquaintance, creation of family or the strong relations. At registration for further convenient selection the multilevel test is offered to the visitor. If acquaintance purpose not flirtation, then to you here. Minus — most services paid. Plus — the adjusted technical support and lack of fake pages. There is a convenient system of payment (the cash card, PayPal).
Preparation for acquaintance
Before looking for the potential girlfriend it is necessary to check the page. On a profile has to be a maximum of information on you:
- the photo (avatars), is desirable fresh and your;
- age and marital status;
- several offers on hobbies and interests;
- photos with relatives, friends, from rest — the more the person reveals, the it causes more trust.
Whether you know? The first-ever social network in the Internet a scope was developed for military structures of the USA in 1971.
If on the page there are compromising facts, it is necessary to remove. It can be the provocative, candid photo with the former girlfriend, participation in In the total about the Pickup group. If you have a photo with girls, sign who they are for you: colleagues, schoolmates, relatives. The innocent photo can sometimes cause unnecessary suspicions and complicate future acquaintance. Further the chosen and pleasant object needs to be studied. To look at it with a photo, to read posts, the description of hobbies and interests, participation in groups. The received data will help to make dialogue competently.
Important! It is not necessary to expose the photos underlining narcissism. Hardly anyone will become interested in fiddleheaded narcissus.
Correct beginning
The first message can become the last therefore it is necessary to forget hackneyed and trite phrases at acquaintance. Examples:
- How are you doing?;
- What are you doing?;
- The cutie, let's get acquainted!;
- The child, you are sexy!.
You already checked its page, than she is interested, its photos. If there are many pictures where it with a cat, ask a question of the favourite. There is several photo from the different countries, the cities — the uniting travel subject, it is possible to stock up with some interesting facts or events. If in its profile the favourite book or the movie is specified, it will be wrong to write about the same preferences, without having any concept about this subject. Exposure in a lie will nullify all efforts.
Important! In communication try not to bring up of sensitive issues, such as policy or ethnic question. Such conversations do not promote romanticism, on the contrary, can set by the ears even close people totally.
Continuation communication
After the first exchange of messages took place, it is simple to look for a subject for a conversation. It is necessary to ask questions only. First, the attention is pleasant to any person, secondly, it will help with further communication and a personal meeting.
Telling about itself, it is not necessary to go deep into the last sadly ended communications, everyone has a past, but it is pleasant not to all about it the nobility. Besides, it is possible to make an impression of the whiner and loser. You should not embellish the life: to think out successful work, a high social status or financial solvency. First, it is fraught with exposure shameful and unpleasant, secondly, the relations will end without having begun.
You should not hurry with a personal meeting, equally, as well as to postpone for a long time. Haste will prevent you to know well the young lady and to be prepared properly. Constant tightening will give diffidence, and women love resolute men. Concerning virtual gifts on the website: it is lovely, this manifestation of attention, but no more than 1-2 times.
It will be interesting to you to learn as well as what to interest the girl on correspondence in.
Much more pleasantly to the girl, the woman to hear compliments in the address:
- about appearance;
- about versatile interests;
- about thin sense of humour;
- about uncommon mind.
There is no uniform standard or a set of rules in communication both in personal, and in virtual. Everything depends on the person and the purpose of acquaintance, the sincerity and naturalness is anyway appreciated.