The first kiss — an important, disturbing and responsible event to which experts advise to be prepared in advance. Unfortunately, today males more often quail before the ladylove, and the last should take a situation in hand. In article we will tell how to kiss the guy of the first and what effective receptions exist for this purpose.
As it is correct to kiss the guy of the first
The first kiss for loving couple is the beginning of new, more serious stage in their relations. However, many guys do not wish to show an initiative, and then the girl needs to attract attention the first, using a kiss. How to take the first step and, at the same time, not to go too far?
For the first time
That the first kiss did not look ridiculously or excessively busily, it is necessary to be prepared for it morally. It is not necessary to be too serious, thoughtful, to deliberate long over the following step. The excessive nervousness, tension or impudence will also play it in this situation against the girl.
The first kiss has to be easy, easy, gentle and absolutely unostentatious. The best option is to present gently with a kiss and it is lovely to smile.
It is important! If the girl wants to kiss the guy who to her is nice — it is necessary to make it. At the slightest doubts in his sympathy or an improper situation, it is better to transfer similar attempts to more opportunity.
In a cheek
If the girl doubts into the account of the first kiss on the lips and leaves the right to show an initiative to the man, then it is possible to make in a different way and to involve a cheek. Certainly, the simplest method to make it — to give smacking kiss it in a cheek at a meeting or farewell. However, experts advise to wait for romantic atmosphere in which the guy, perhaps, will be able to decide on more serious acts.
The unostentatious kiss on the cheek has particular advantages:
- it does not oblige to anything either the guy, or the girl;
- is not an indicator of persistence of the girl;
- demonstrates that the beloved is ready to the next stage — kiss on the lips.
In lips
Special charm and attractiveness the French kiss or as it is called in the people, in a hickey at which not only lips, but also language are involved has. It is not enough which of males will be able to resist a similar kiss. It is capable to kindle passion and to awaken desire.
Important! You should not use the French kiss if the guy did not show signs of sympathy and interest at all, differently you can appear in an awkward situation.
It is recommended to begin such action with light touch with lips to lips, and further to pass to penetration of language. During it it is necessary to nestle on the guy a body, to stroke it on a back or on a nape.
If you hesitate
Showing an initiative at the first kiss, the girl has to realize that and supernatural she makes nothing shameful. And even if the attempt will be unsuccessful, then it forever will remain just experience. Probability that after such manifestations of feelings the guy will also be confused, and then a task of the beloved to show that everything is normal is not excluded. Experts advise to discharge a situation an amusing joke or just to disregard it.
Whether you know? At a fast romantic kiss it is possible to burn about 5 calories, at the same time the minute kiss in a hickey allows to get rid of 26 calories.
How to behave after a kiss
So, the kiss occurred. How further to behave with a sympathy object? First of all, you should not attach to an event too serious significance as for the soulmate it can be only a logical conclusion of an appointment. However, it is better to perceive the kiss fact as an element of little and pleasant flirtation. Certainly, small confusion from the lady quite appropriate, but you should not change.
How to understand that the guy wants to kiss you
To understand that the guy is interested in presenting to the girl a kiss, it is quite simple if to analyze a little his behavior. In similar cases it:
- tells many pleasant words and compliments;
- actively continues communication with the darling;
- often fixedly looks to the lady in the face and on lips;
- at any opportunity tries to touch the girl, to take her by hand, to nestle, put a hand on a shoulder or a knee.
Constraining males can not show the feelings. However, their excessive embarrassment can show strong sympathy and desire to pass to a new step of the relations.
We advise to esteem what is the relations between the man and the woman.
How to make that the guy kissed the first
If the girl cannot decide on a kiss of the first, then she the actions can push to it the elect. First of all, it is necessary to come into tactile contact with an object of the sympathy: to take him by hand, to nestle accidentally on him, to carry out by a palm on hair, etc.
It is possible to excite the elect and to push him on resolute actions appearance. The girl has to be womanly, with some riddle. It is better to put on simple, fitting and, the main, not trite dress which will successfully emphasize advantages of a figure and will hide possible shortcomings.
At a meeting with the beloved it is necessary to speak quietly and gently, avoiding hysterical laughter or squeal, to look gently to him in the face, to smile lovely and mysteriously. It should be noted that some women manage to behave in this way easily and naturally, however, some after all should learn it.
Important! When establishing tactile contact it is not necessary to be too importunate, otherwise the guy can think that the girl vulgar and readily available.
Where to kiss the guy that he wanted you
At the first kiss not only the fact of the kiss, but also that part of a body to which it is directed is important. Men like to kiss not less, than to girls. But most of all they love experiments and surprises.
In a neck
The proximity between two lovers begins with the first kiss. Certainly, it is possible to work according to the knurled scheme and to expect the first step from the elect, but it is possible to intrigue him, to bring a gentle kiss to a neck.
In the most suitable situation, at the moment of direct proximity, it is possible to nestle on the partner, to bury to him in a neck, with pleasure to inhale aroma of his body and to touch gently by neck lips. At the same time the second it is necessary to stroke-oar other side of a neck then instinctively to stretch to lips. Probability that after similar actions the elect most will want to kiss the girl on the mouth passionately is high.
Whether you know? At a kiss 29 face muscles are involved. In the course of this pleasant action the blood circulation in cells of fabrics improves, exchange processes are normalized, the tone of integuments raises that promotes prevention of emergence and reduction of wrinkles.
Passionate kiss on the lips
If desire of the girl is in exciting the guy, to attract of it inclination and genuine interest, there is nothing more effectively, than passionate, burning and, at the same time, sensual kiss on the lips. During a kiss it is very important to involve other parts of a body: to gently stroke the face of the elect a palm, to carry out on his hair, to caress hands his back, shoulders or hips. In a similar situation the darling, most likely, will be able to grope at least one of its erogenous zones.
At manifestation of the feelings it is very important to keep a side and not to seem to the guy readily available. Kissing the guy of the first, the girl risks to be misunderstood therefore it is necessary to behave so that the elect did not doubt strangeness of a situation for it. Experts advise quicker after a kiss to say goodbye to the beloved. Similar behavior and a certain incompleteness of process will push it on a thought of the girl prior to the next meeting that will even more excite his imagination.
Whether you know? Patients who are regularly kissed by relatives and relatives recover much quicker and those which are deprived of kisses come to a form, than.
The first kiss is an important event in life of lovers therefore it is better to be prepared for it previously. To plan embraces and kisses according to the scenario it will hardly turn out, however, knowing some methods and cunnings, it is possible to make them the most pleasant, gentle and easy. Main thing: to feel a situation as heart and to do everything only at will.