It is seldom possible to meet couple in which both equally love each other. Usually one person loves, and the second simply allows to love himself. And most often the woman has strong feelings. She is ready for a lot of things for the man. But such love slavery does not bring anything good.
Instruction
1. Love slaves receive a minimum from the relations in which they consist. They do not know what is reciprocal feelings, often sacrifice the time, make concessions. Such situation cannot be pleasant. Women want romanticism, mutual love, there is a wish that they were pleased and gave though something instead of their feelings. If you realized that you became a love uniform, then the first step on the way to healing is already taken. And you needed to execute not so much to stop indulging others whims.
2. If the man does not love you, force it to have this feeling or leave him. The first way more difficult, it demands a lot of time and energy. The second option will bring you pain, but it can be compared to pain from operation on removal of a cancer tumor. Yes, unpleasant feelings are, but it saved to you health or even life.
3. Decide to choose the first option – change completely. The man already knows that which you are now. And it is not enough to change only a hairstyle, clothes or style of behavior. You have to become perfect other person, especially in the relations with your darling. Try to react to everything in a new way: on his behavior, on quarrels, on the fact that he tries to manipulate you. Behave more quietly, do not show the feelings what it costed you.
4. Begin to develop yourself. It is one of the key moments of your change. Become more erudite, get a new hobby, learn to understand something for yourself new. Development has to happen constantly, otherwise you will not be able to achieve the necessary result.
5. And if you chose the second option, sharply sever relations. Replace the phone number, ICQ, Skype that he could not call or write to you more. Of course, and you should not dial treasured digits too. It will be painful, but then you will be able to begin the new relations which will allow you to feel all charm of life. Besides pain from separation lasts long not so, already later few months you will depart from last troubles.
6. To endure this unpleasant period as it is possible more without serious consequences, give yourself full-time job. As often as possible meet friends, try to diversify the life. Well and, of course, remember only the worst that was in your last relations.