The importunate girl is capable to destroy the finest and pure feeling in the man. She constantly keeps ringing to it, itself suggests to meet and can even catch after work … Do you recognize yourself?
Thin side
The relations with darling need to be maintained constantly. That love fire did not die away, it is necessary to excite interest in the man and not to allow it to relax. However not all understand it equally. Here also it turns out that the lady begins to keep ringing to the elect on hundred times a day, to control each its step and gradually completely takes all initiative. How to notice that thin side when you cease to maintain gently your fine romantic relations and instead you turn into the shrew seeking to control each step of the man?
For a start sit down and think how often the initiative in your relations is shown by you. Ideally, the woman should not be more interested in communication, than the man. That is, if your elect calls you once a week, and you to him – fifteen – an initiative obviously not on his party. Try to show less interest in your relations, it is kind of difficult it seemed. Let the man will be more initiative, than you. Give him the chance to express themselves!
Tranquility, only tranquility
The importunity often goes from mistrust. You are afraid to lose the young man or begin to think what in your absence from talks or meets something else? Begin with what learn to trust the man – it is pledge of the long and happy relations. And your elect if feels that you do not doubt him more, will relax and will begin to behave absolutely differently – here will see.
And whether you need it
If in the relations you feel that you literally drag everything on yourself, and the man only inertly agrees, think, perhaps, these are not those relations what are necessary to you? Happens, of course, when the woman every time subconsciously looks for the partner who will be easy to be subordinated to yourself, but if you think of the importunity and you worry because of it - it is obviously not your option. What if the strong man is simply necessary for you? If you long are in the relations and value them, but continue to want bigger, and the man does not hurry anywhere, it can be a signal for concern. When people are really interested in the joint future, they will show interest and to try to maintain the relations at one level of activity. Think of it. Perhaps, really it is time to stop being importunate, and just to put the fat end to your unilateral relations?