Some women madly are jealous the man of his past - the ex-wife or the girlfriend. At heart they understand that they are not right, but is not able to cope with this feeling.
1. You have to accept the man it what he is. There is nothing terrible that he was married or he had from marriage children. When you got acquainted and fell in love with it, you learned about its past. Understand, what was, cannot already be changed, kind of you wanted it.
2. Try to understand the man. Present yourself on its place. If, for example, you from the previous marriage would have children, you would like to be separated from them? If the man became yours a husband, it does not mean at all that he has to throw the children, he anyway will remain for them the father. Let the spouse himself solve, what is the time he will carry out with them and with the ex-wife. Do not bind and do not reproach him, otherwise he will want to escape.
3. You treat everything loyally. The ex-wife can call your husband, consult in the questions concerning children and even to ask the help. The father is obliged to participate in education of children. Think, kind of you treated the man who does not care for the child.
4. You do not speak about children of your husband from first marriage badly. Better, on the contrary, try to improve with them the relations. And if the ex-wife is against it, do not insist and do not take offense. Let your spouse independently communicate with the child.
5. Do not think of the ex-wife of the spouse, pay more attention to yourself better. Self-improve, you have to be for the husband of the best and beautiful. Besides you will not have time for digging in the feelings at all.
6. If you wish to be really happy and favourite, then try to vytisnut two things from the consciousness. The first - children's fear to be insufficiently favourite as the person gets so much love how many he gives. The second - the attitude towards the spouse as to property. Lyubov does not take root in bondage. As soon as you "seize" the husband, he will want to leave.