If your partner already had serious relations to you or was married, there can be a jealousy of the past. And even in case the previous relations came to the end for a long time and do not pose a threat for the current communication with you. The subconscious aspiration to be the boundless owner of the beloved, jealousy of ghosts can be led to scandals, groundless charges, fading of feelings and a gap.
Instruction
1. To bridle the jealousy of the past of the partner, it is necessary to begin with itself. You can involuntarily give a reason for suspicions if you constantly appeal to the forgotten people who were once playing an important role in your life long ago. It is not just undesirable, strictly forbidden to mention the former beloved / oho in a conversation with present. And especially comparison of the soulmate with the previous partner will be offensive.
2. The frankness in the relations is necessary, but let it will be selective. Certainly, interest in that with whom there lived a beloved/-ая prior to your meeting is quite natural. However you have to have enough wisdom and it is simple to judiciousness to take into consideration the occurred facts from the partner's life. These data should not become destructive thoughts, a subject for excessive self-criticism regarding: "Speaks about being, so still loves". Moreover, scandals on jealousy of the former private life can provoke a lie, reserve of your partner. And, as a jealousy wreath, the suspended relations.
3. That the past of your partner did not destroy your present, just try to address it as seldom as possible. Do not provoke darling to memories and straight talks of the facts from antecedents which can hurt you. And especially do not torture him regarding details of sexual life with the predecessor. The silliest of you is to try to find for the former beloved/-ую and "to have a heart-to-heart talk". Except irritation and bewilderment at both, you it will cause nothing.
4. The question of mutual trust will be always relevant in couple. Struggle with temptation to check its phone, mail and personal belongings. Especially, if you for certain know that with being your half the business, friendly relations or the general children connect. The jealousy gives the distorted interpretation to everything. The jealous person is capable to interpret the innocent sms as a proof. Trust each other. Checks in love are inappropriate.