The jealousy can arise at any stage of the novel, even in the strong and long-term relations. This feeling torments not only the jealous man, but also a jealousy object therefore it is better to find a way to get rid of it.
1. Do not show aggression and do not torment the wife with groundless suspicions. Do not make scandals because of late return home, do not check phone for existence of romantic messages, it will only aggravate your situation. Most often the jealousy has under itself no reasons, but under your pressure the woman can go for a consolation to other man.
2. Be attentive and tender with it. If the woman does not receive necessary attention and love from the spouse, there is a treason probability. The girl who is happy with the relations seldom starts an affair on the party.
3. Raise own self-assessment. Often the jealousy appears not from behind real problems, and from behind complexes and uncertainty of the jealous man. Sort out yourself, correct shortcomings, lift the self-assessment and become better, than were before. When you fall in love with yourself, your suspicions will disappear.
4. Distract with experiences, do favorite thing and try not to think of the jealousy. Negative emotions spoil mood, worsen health, but do not give anything positive. After pleasant pastime, with good mood, you will be able to look at a situation absolutely with other eyes.
5. Soberly look at a situation, without trying to invent nonexistent signs. Do not try to attach particular importance to daily actions of the spouse – is late because of an appointment, strongly it is provocatively painted for the lover, and such happy because of the novel on the party.
6. You spend more time together. Meet the spouse after work, you spend the days off together, enter a circle of her friends. But be not too persuasive that it had no desire to have a rest from you.
7. Talk to the wife about thoughts and feelings which disturb you, perhaps, she does not even guess your experiences. The conversation has to take place in a quiet situation and without promotion of any charges. The simple conversation can explain the moments unclear earlier, help to understand each other and will make you even closer.