How not to be to the girl a friend

How not to be to the girl a friend

The guy meets the girl, they communicate, walk and spend much time together. It seems to the young man that it is time to become more, than just friends, but it turns out that he already strongly took this position and the romantic relations are not expected. It is necessary to prove to be correctly from the very beginning of the relations not to become just a friend.

1. At once let know that it is interesting to you as the girl, but not just the girlfriend. Give several compliments, flirt and in other ways show the interest. Everything has to be moderately romantic also without platitudes.

2. Communicate with it, learn interests and you gain the confidence. Girls love when listen to them, support and in every possible way pay attention. But stick to romantic subject not to become just pleasant interlocutor. You do not become her "vest" in which it will be cried about other guys.

3. Try to touch it as often as possible, but it is not too persuasive. If you at the first meeting begin to climb to the girl with kisses, chances to become it at least familiar will quickly be reduced. For a start "accidentally" adjoin to it hands when walking, embrace for shoulders if it froze. Watch reaction of the girl to your touches, and if it not against, be more active.

4. Try to be interesting and original. You bring a variety your meetings, surprise and add something new to her life. Make your appointments unforgettable that the girl wanted to spend with you more time.

5. You transfer the relations to the next stage. Do not linger too long on a stage "just friends", show persistence and try to develop the relations. If your feelings are mutual, you do not receive strong resistance. You do not force an event, but gradually try to obtain bigger.

6. Be not too persuasive that the girl managed to miss. Do not fill up her with messages, gifts, calls or inquiries - know when to stop, in manifestation of the feelings.

7. Try to look sure even if it not so. Shy and indecisive guys most often turn into "friends". Behave naturally, talk, you joke and try not to worry.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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