How not to be weak when he fallen in love

How not to be weak when he fallen in love

To the girl hard happens to resist temptation to use love of the young man in the mercenary purposes. Having reciprocated to it, she can receive almost complete control over it — the young man will make anything if only darling was not capricious and did not cry.

Instruction

1. What strong would not be love, reserve the right for personal space. Besides the girl you have parents, friends and favourite work. She has to understand it and if categorically does not want it, most likely, she will constantly do to try to take the beloved under the total control. Trusting relationship assumes that you can drink in the evening beer with friends, and she — quietly to discuss the purchases with girlfriends, but not to keep ringing each five minutes with inquiries. If she forces to stop communication with friends and demands the full report on what you did at work today — let it know that you will not let to control yourself.

2. A hysterics and tears — the most powerful weapon of the woman for receiving the desirable from the man, not indifferent to it. And she knows about it and, most likely, will try to use this means at least once. Be on the alert — as soon as darling decides to check you thus "for durability", at once stop a stream of uncontrollable emotions. It is not necessary to shout at it and to offend — at first just calm her, let's it have a good cry and then quiet tone tell it that you never liked hysterical women and such behavior does not paint it at all. Explain to her that if she wants something to achieve it, it is possible just to ask without similar emotional splashes.

3. The man can become very weak and pliable when he fallen in love, and the woman, knowing it, plays on his proprietary instincts. "Choose — either I, or friends!", "Well also leave — I will find to myself another, it is a hundred times better" — similar phrases the girl uses your fear to lose her in the interests. As soon as she uses at least one of them, let it know that you are not afraid of it. Such indifference will frighten the girl, and she will cease to behave in this way.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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