Years of joint life with the husband can lead to a routine in the relations which once shone bright paints. To change sluggish and boring family life, try to show an initiative and to begin with changes in itself.
1. Be independent. Both at you, and at your soulmate in a day a number of questions can collect, the list put, unpleasant surprises. Do not pour out on it what you can solve. Of course, alone nobody forces to move cases you, but also to complain that the kitten broke your favourite cup, or you should not start infinite conversations about injustice of your administration too.
2. Take personal interests into account. Allocate at least a couple of hours in a week to be engaged in the hobby. For example, sign up for a language course or be engaged in acrylic painting, master hand-made or interior design, attend dog exhibitions or acquire the subscription to the pool. By the way, the last will give not only an emotional, but also physical discharge that will allow to splash out tension, will encourage, and also will perfect a figure.
3. Do not allow life "to eat" for the sake of what you once began to live together. If you began to notice that every day it is similar to previous, suggest the husband to make together what you never did earlier. It is important that it was not limited to a framework of your apartment or house. For example, attend classes of pair dances, play a doll performance for the or neighbour's children, do some flying on a paraplane or make an independent trip there where you never before were.
4. You speak with each other. Be able to listen to darling, you seek for dialogue which surely has to come to the end with pleasant words to each other. You tell more often warm words for which "everything was not a right moment". The appointment will become an original way to come to such conversation. Agree to meet in some cozy place (especially for it it is possible to buy a beautiful dress which the husband did not see yet) and just to present each other feeling that both of you are still loved and desired.