The sympathy which arose in working collective bears in itself certain difficulties. Feelings between colleagues often it is accepted to hide, meet only in time off, during the day not to show each other an affection. In case you begin to fall in love with the chief, the situation is even more difficult.
Instruction
1. For a start understand to yourself the possible mechanism of this love. Your chief in this case is an alpha male. He is dear person, reached much, and if it at the same time also is good himself, then from it the healthy posterity for certain will turn out. At the same time about tender feelings the speech can not go at all – in you exorcized instincts. But the person on that and reasonable being to be able to suppress them.
2. Begin to notice all shortcomings of your chief. Perhaps, he forms an ugly fold on a forehead when he is angry with subordinates, or it has a habit to champ loudly during a lunch in the general dining room. If it seems to you that the chief is ideal, think up situations in which he will look silly. For example, present that when he comes to you into an office, on it the tub of slops from above pours out, and from a nose the skin from sausage hangs down.
3. Perhaps, you want the relations with the chief only to raise your self-assessment. Regularly remind yourself what you the clever and beautiful girl, develops the merits and you find new. As soon as you begin to appreciate yourself, you with surprise will find out that the affair with the chief not really and is necessary to you.
4. The situation is aggravated in case your chief wishes to flirt with female subordinates. Politely, but firmly stop all attempts of flirting with you. It is quite probable that exactly thanks to it the chief will begin to respect you.
5. Women who have good friendly relations with the chief and to whom it seems that he is also interested in development of the novel can talk about it to the chief directly. Often, when people discuss how pulls them to each other, the attractive veil of secrecy and innuendoes leaves, the inclination vanishes.
6. If you are sure that your feelings the most real and sincere, and the chief answers you with the same, dare. It is much simpler to find new work, than the new ideal man.