Often at work the people spend more time, than at home. And communication with colleagues of an opposite sex, sometimes very affable and attractive is constant, involves at first flirtation, and then and love.
1. If you are married or you already have a beloved, you should not look for adventures at work. Office romances very seldom come to an end well. Having been fond of feelings, it is possible to lose not only the relations, but also prestigious work. Most the companies does not approve communications between colleagues and, having learned about your attachment, you can just be fired that emotions did not stir work. Always you remember it if there was desire to fall in love with the colleague.
2. It is better to find the worthy partner out of office walls. Present that you fell in love with the colleague, and he reciprocated to you. You will see each other round the clock that quickly enough will bother. Mutual claims and reproaches will begin. Besides, you will not be able objectively to estimate its work any more. Also you will carp on trifles or, on the contrary, to let mistakes. Neither that, nor another favors to office-work. And, respectively, it will not be approved by the management.
3. Before falling in love with the colleague, try to know him better. Observe how he behaves at a corporate party. On service people at all not such as houses or with friends. And, perhaps, the behavior of the colleague in an informal situation will not be pleasant to you at all. Then desire to create with it couple instantly will be gone.
4. It is quite probable that the colleague flirts with you in vested interests. Especially, if you are higher than him on a position. It is quite simple to get to the core of such colleague. Hint that you have problems with the management and you, most likely, will leave. If interest was not gone, feelings real. And if the colleague began to avoid you, then all previous steps to your party were properties.