Why women should not feel fear of a divorce and how it is possible to avoid the unpleasant situations connected with this process?
Many women are unfair not only to themselves, but also to the life and also achievements and progress. In spite of the fact that society rather modern, many families try to marry the daughter much more before that time when she is ready.
Why women should not feel fear of a divorce?
Actually parents can violently and not send the daughter to the REGISTRY OFFICE, but they since early years tell that the woman is created for family, for the husband and for children. From here also such aspiration turns out - to marry quicker.
If the girl married unsuccessfully, then nobody will be delighted to a divorce in family. Usually relatives say that the wife has to suffer, forgive, encourage, support and love everything. And here if in family also children are, then is more useless than them without father to leave. Therefore it is worth suffering and living the martyr.
Most of girls reproach themselves for such choice, considering that it is their haste played a dirty trick with them. But actually at that moment the girl was still innocent, and in her played youthful maximalism. But everything can be corrected. Even it is possible to leave unsuccessful marriage, important only not to be afraid of it.
Most of women prefer to be in unhappy marriage because of fear of loneliness or because of opinion of surrounding people. And people will whisper, discuss, wash up bones. Of course, pleasant in it it is not enough.
Experts tell that you should not spend the time with unpleasant people, it concerns also family life as such society can do harm, both moral, and physical.
If there are no feelings to the person and there is no wish to have with him, then it is worth leaving and building further happy life. Perhaps, it was also such springboard to new life, to new family in which there will be a mutual understanding, love and tenderness.
There now, let us assume, if it is necessary to live with this unloved person, all the life whether it is possible? Whether will bother to be unfortunate? Whether such feat is necessary to society?
The main thing to understand that even to be better than one, than with the person whom soul does not love and in general does not transfer to spirit. Besides the loneliness will last not eternally: it will be shortly possible to find really worthy man who will give those feelings and emotions which were not enough from the former husband earlier.
It is not necessary to be afraid of lonely evenings. It is necessary to consider this time as chance to know itself better, to think of some moments, to find time for itself, to enjoy rest. Most of women found the love, the happiness, only after divorced the unloved man.
Also it is possible to tell that these women are happy. Therefore you should not be afraid of a divorce, it is impossible to live all life, without being lucky enough near the man. Therefore it is not necessary to worry because of a divorce.