If it is difficult to you to overcome shyness even at long communication with the man, reconsider the installations which prevent you to overcome natural shyness and complexes.
Instruction
1. Do not allow complexes to disturb concerning your appearance the relations with the man. If you are happy with yourself, the figure and proportions, most likely, and everything in you will be pleasant to your man. Your appeal grows in his eyes in direct ratio your self-confidence.
2. Be ready to keep up the conversation with the man. Find topics which interest both of you, and communicate. If on the first appointments you are afraid to be the boring interlocutor, in advance increase the awareness on hobbies of your young man. So you will feel more surely and to keep is less clamped.
3. Do not lay great expectations on the man with whom at you passes only the first appointment. Having begun to think out as your relations will develop, you will exaggerate importance for you this person and will be afraid to make a mistake. Because of the increased tension your behavior will be unnatural, and you will begin to worry more and more. Relax and try to see in the man first of all the interesting person.
4. You watch a self-assessment. Do not belittle own importance. If you think that you hardly can it will be pleasant to the representative of an opposite sex, your uncertainty in own appeal will be splashed out outside through moist palms, a shiver in knees, inability to finish a phrase and to look in eyes, without looking away immediately. Change installation. Think how the person who is near you now was lucky.
5. Take out a lesson from last failures and try to forget about them. If you accurately understand what mistakes should be avoided, uneasiness will leave.
6. Do not wind yourself. The longer you imagine how there will take place your meeting with the man with whom you sympathize, the worry stronger. Be distracted by another matters.