The relations between the man and the woman pass several stages. At first it is passion and recognition of each other. Then grinding in and adaptation to the partner. Then equal and confidential communication. At each stage there is a risk everything to destroy if does not learn to talk to the second half, to understand and bypass acute angles.
Instruction
1. At a stage of passion and recognition it is very easy to lose the relations. Partners do not trust each other yet and are not sure that they met the destiny. In this situation you do not press on the soulmate at all. Let everything take its course. Let time think and to weigh all pluses and minuses of your communication. And you surround darling with care and attention. Only do it unostentatiously not to frighten off him. Then the partner will see that you can be trusted, and the relations will gain development.
2. You - already taken place couple. Passions settled a little, and you began to recognize each other more deeply. And there is a chance to leave. Right now some imperfections and not the most pleasant traits of character which you in the partner did not notice earlier get out on light. As soon as saw change - you are not silent. Explain why any given moments are unpleasant to you. Ask to take the second half into account not only own opinion, but also your feelings. Only by means of a confidential conversation it is possible to preserve the peace in couple.
3. You meet already long ago and began to live together or even got married. You know the partner well, he opened before you soul. Now the main thing is to keep warm feelings. For this purpose try to arrange to darling pleasant surprises. You give flowers or lovely knickknacks not only on holidays, but also in usual day. The occasion can be thought up always. For example, "I give you a heart because five years ago, this number, I understood that I cannot live without you". It will not demand from you efforts. But the partner will be sure always that you love him and very much need him.
4. Whatever stage there passed your relations, remember that you should not delay a serious conversation. As soon as the crack was outlined, at once discuss a problem. Without offenses and the hysteric talk to darling. You are adults and are capable to construct constructive dialogue. And surely listen not only yourself, but also the soulmate. Then everything will turn out.