The real scourge of modern society is decline of family values and numerous stains. It is necessary to understand accurately how to save itself from this misfortune.
Dynamics of modern life forces all the time to move forward, to study something, to overcome something – in - the general, to do not stand still. Changes happen daily, sometimes - and hourly. There is nothing firm, constant and stable. And if it concerns the business sphere, then is still admissible, but in private life disturbs, taking away plenty of time and forces.
Infinite acquaintances, communications, marriages, stains. Someone can tell, the person in search of the half, the second "I", but it is just silly loss of time. To interrupt this vicious circle, to stop an infernal wheel – a task from tasks. Women, the set of times marrying and the men considering the marriages as awards for special merits – it is not fashionable for a long time and, on a bigger measure, never was that.
So, how to be saved from hastiness in the choice of the partner, and subsequently – the wrong spouse?
1. In love affairs the intuitive perception is the most reliable adviser. Even when heart is captured by passion, love, desire with the partner to be eternal, it would be advisable to listen to the secret adviser. The slightest manifestation of an intuition (in the form of fleeting melancholy, uncertainty, strange alarm) indicates that this object nice, but it is not necessary to marry it definitely. The real half does not cause such emotions.
2. If already tables are laid, guests gathered in full strength, the leader of a celebration nervously banishes eyes in the text, musicians put in order tuxedos, and buds of flowers revealed and exhale gentle aromas – all to hell! The slightest nervous trembling – anything else, as the beginning of the end. And it not notorious prewedding nervousness. Ability to tell "No" if understanding of an error of the choice came to the latest moment. Let big expenses be incurred, and guests are offended – there is nothing worse than the made mistake in the choice of the partner.
3. Not to be frightened of loneliness – destiny of the self-sufficient person. Why will the casual fellow traveler, unless with him become less melancholy?! Whether it is better for one to miss, than to miss together?! The lack of these fears, unavailability to work "at random" because of doubtful concern to pass the half, and stay in a sure state will not allow the next stamp dashingly put by the worker of the REGISTRY OFFICE to appear in the passport.
4. The given rise posterity from the accidental, short-lived and wrong union – always a problem, both for the union, and for this posterity. In family where there is no absolute love - there is no harmoniously developing young growth. Better not quantity, but quality of the offsprings born in the correct union.
5. Soul and heart – not a public bath. Exposure acceptable only once and forever. And to the right and on the left the distributed promises and declarations of love depreciate this magic feeling. Always the joining reason as red color of a semaphore will lower a barrier and will close journey in an inner sanctum – I smother also heart.