When people long are in couple, they begin to trust the second half completely. Also it seems that are able to read each other mind. But it not absolutely so. During such trusting relationship it is possible to offend seriously darling, to touch the thinnest strings of his soul.
Instruction
1. Your feelings already got stronger, and passions of the first appointments settled a little. You learned to understand each other and to listen to words. You relaxed and are completely sure of the second half. Attention! Exactly here the danger is concealed. Most often offenses at darling occur because in response to outright recognition which was given very hard the partner began to joke. For example, the person tells that in the childhood he lacked maternal love and care what feelings he had as it was reflected in all his subsequent life. And in reply hears: "But now mummy does not give to pass". Thus you want to support the person, to translate everything for fun. However cry from the heart - not a reason for humour. Just support the partner, tell that you always nearby and at any time will come to the rescue. It what now is necessary for him.
2. It is possible to offend darling any blurt. For example, the partner presented you a gift a little not such what you wanted. It is not an occasion to sort out the relations. Thank the soulmate and tell that you very much like a gift. And next time just choose things together.
3. Most scrupulously the person treats criticism of the relatives. Therefore even if relatives of the second half in something are not right, do not abuse them. Just tell the partner why you do not agree with their opinion. You should not say what they boring, meticulous, envious, etc. Do not pay attention to statements in your address from their party. Just try to find a common language. It can be done practically with everyone if to find the subjects for a conversation interesting both.
4. The most important - you learn to listen to the partner. Most often the person sounds that it is not too pleasant to him, just it flies by ears. Learn to take the speech of darling into consideration and to bypass critical moments. Then reasons for offenses will not be.