To offend the loved one very easily. Very often in a rush of anger of the spouse beat the most sick. Of course, the repentance comes then. But to regain the trust of the second half very difficult.
Instruction
1. You as nobody else, you know all weaknesses of the spouse, her complexes and small shortcomings. You it is aware of its relations with the family and problems at work. And sometimes, in an anger rush, the words capable escape it is simple to crush trust of darling. That it did not occur, try always, even in a quarrel, to remember that before you the person who counts on you looks for support and supports. And if you take up arms against him, having pressed on the most sick, it can lead not only to scandal, but also to a gap.
2. Always think whether your words the second half will offend. Do not focus attention that so far it is impossible. Help council better. But it is necessary to make it unostentatiously. For example, if the spouse is not strong in cookery, suggest to prepare together. So process will go more cheerfully, and you will be able imperceptibly to correct all defects. And, having tried excellent dishes, the spouse itself will want to learn art of cookery and in everything will already ask you council.
3. Very often the wife is offended even not by(with) words, and silence. Silence in response to her questions, unwillingness to communicate after arrival from work, etc. Of course, for the whole day at office, with the exhausting road, traffic jams, you are tired strongly. But it is not an occasion to be closed from darling. Just sound that you were very much exhausted in a day and you want to sit, look through quietly the newspaper or to look at soccer. And then surely find time for the beloved spouse and you will listen to everything what she wants to tell about.
4. Always you remember that the wife loves you and worries. If you are late in way - you call and warn about it. If the meeting with friends is scheduled - tell in advance. These simple actions will help to preserve the peace in family.
5. Before to tell something, try on words on yourself. And they would be pleasant to you? And if the conflict is about to happen, you do not act rashly. Count to ten. During this time the heat will fall down, and expressions will become much softer, than those which the first occurred.