Often girls inflate sponges, retire into oneself or keep the mouth shut, showing offense at darling. Very clearly they ask the offender to regret them, to pay the attention, to calm. In such ways they tried to obtain parental participation in their children's sorrows, act also in adulthood. However they forget that it is more pleasant to beloved to see a cheerful, cheerful girlish face. And his love, unlike parental, is not unconditional.
Instruction
1. Try not to take offense at the beloved if he came excited from work, irritable. Not always the person stays in the iridescent, pacified state. Let to it know that you, certainly, on its party that you are one team. And instead of pouted let the offender will get from you support and understanding.
2. Analyze a situation which led you to offense at darling. Reflect how the offender had to behave, in your opinion, not to upset you. Your expectations of openness and affability of other person are how objective. How to correlate these expectations to reality. Perhaps, you will understand that the offense at darling could be nipped in the bud. Choose right tactics of behavior with darling.
3. Try to understand that was meant by the beloved who inadvertently forced you to take offense. Capture an essense of its claims cleaned from a peel of offensive attacks in your address. It is possible to tell quietly: "Well, darling, I understood you. Only let's do without causticities next time. I am sure that at you it will turn out". Thus you preserve the peace in your relations. Also you will remain at situation height. Be wiser!
4. You do not cause damage to the health, falling to offense at darling. At the nursed grievance there is muscular tension, from there is a feeling of the got stuck lump in a throat. Blood circulation worsens that leads to decrease in immunity and various diseases. Many diseases of airways, cardiovascular, etc. are a direct consequence of your habit to take offense even on trifles. It is necessary to you? Think of the health.
5. Make light of the offensive statements of the beloved. Subtle humour – sign of the uncommon personality. The man will appreciate your mind. Than to pout as the child, prove to be the wise, sensitive, optimistic, understanding, loving and generous woman better.
6. In the unsurpassed anthem of love of the apostle Pavel there are words about what the love is kind, dolgoterpit, does not look for the, is not extolled, not irritated, everything covers, everything transfers. Learn to forgive. If you love, do not allow ridiculous offenses to crush your love.