The relations between lovers for various reasons can be cooled. Moreover, one of the parties can make the decision on a gap. For example, the girl was disappointed in the guy, it became clear to her that not she dreamed of such partner in life that with him you will not start a happy family. Nevertheless, in spite of the fact that their relations began to hurt it, a lot of negative emotions, in her heart the love still glimmers. She wants to forget quicker about the guy, to stop loving him, to delete from the life, but cannot.
Instruction
1. Under any plausible excuses reduce your meetings, contacts to a minimum. And then after a while stop them at all. Do not accept it at home and you do not go to it. Avoid visit of those places where you with high degree of probability can meet him even if for this purpose it is necessary to offer visits of favourite cafes, bars, clubs, etc. Business is worth it.
2. Certainly to live the hermit, nearly under house arrest, it is impossible. And your guy for certain will try to resume communication. Politely, but firmly let it know that you it is not excited about it and he in vain spends time. Resolutely refuse the offer to meet and speak. To fall to sneers, insults are not necessary, certainly. You speak chilly and very shortly. "I have no time, I have an important issue", for example. After all, will reach the guy that it is not your minute whim, not a strange whim, but your final decision.
3. Good and effective reception – to remember all offenses, troubles, misunderstanding which happened at you because of this guy. For certain he behaved not in the most faultless way. While you were really in love with it, you willingly it forgave, and here time to remember and wind yourself came now: like, "I to it so much good made, so loved it, and it... ungrateful!". Strain memory, remembering all its shortcomings and sins.
4. Resolutely get rid of everything that reminds you of this person. It is impossible "to clean" memory, of course, but to remove from eyes down with its gifts, the general photos, souvenirs, etc. more than really. Throw out them on a garbage can can be and is not necessary, but to hide somewhere far away to the storeroom or in a wall case – by all means.
5. At last, you remember that nature abhors a vacuum. Time this specific man did not suit you, try to find more worthy who will fall in love with you really. As soon as also you feel just the same feeling, the former love will be forgotten.