Statistics of stains in the country is sad. People more often face that with once beloved and loved one it becomes very difficult to live nearby. Long not all want to exist in a condition of the uncertain status and the intense relations therefore quite often there is a need to accelerate a divorce.
Instruction
1. First, consider whether really it is worth getting divorced. All arguments for a divorce have to be accurately formulated and written down in the secluded place. It will give you determination if at any stage you begin to doubt. And in the future you will easily answer yourself questions – that did not develop in the former relations and what past mistakes need to be considered at creation of new. By the way, to women it is unprofitable to get divorced, especially if there are children, and in the material plan, and in the sense of the prospects of new marriage.
2. Secondly, emotionally prepare yourself and the partner in marriage. The partner, marriage is a joint venture which could not function, and therefore it is better to close it. Your business reputation depends on how you manage with partners; the personal reputation will depend on whether you could disperse properly. To disperse quicker, it is necessary to separate from the partner psychologically, that is not to afford scandals and reproaches. Put on a mask of benevolent indifference - then the partner will understand quicker that there are already no relations upon.
3. Thirdly define the material claims to the partner and, perhaps, it is necessary to offer their part - consider it a payment "for urgency". It is necessary to compensate somehow moral sufferings to the partner (and they are always, especially at men though they do not show them). Your good emotional health costs much so it is better to concede a little in material questions.
4. Fourthly, quietly and surely inform the partner that it is heavy to you to live in process of a divorce and it would be desirable that came to the end quicker and quicker. Not because the spouse bad but because to you it is bad - accent has to be such. The divorce demands cold calculation, do not give in to temptation to strike as it is possible more painfully when you in the power of emotions. It is necessary to create itself conditions for future happiness, but not to try to spoil life to the one whom you leave even if is for what to revenge.