When the daughter reaches teenage age, between her and parents problems often begin to arise. It seems that she still absolutely small also has to play with dolls. But here she learned to contradict parents, made piercing and dyed a hair in terrible color, than threw all family in shock. Home now comes late and does not find it necessary to report where and with whom was. Parents do not want to understand that the girl grew up and she is only irritated by the attitude towards her as to the child.
Instruction
1. Just several months ago the girl was a dear and obedient child, now does not do without the constant conflicts. Parents did not notice when their baby became a girl and she needs to be accepted such what it is.
2. At the daughter the right for the private life which strongly differs from idea of parents of the "correct" life of the teenage girl is had. Yes, she began to wear strange clothes, but now it is so fashionable and all teenagers put on identically. It is not necessary to impose it the vision.
3. Treat indulgently trends of teenage fashion, each subsequent generation differs in something from previous. It would be pleasant to the daughter if parents not only did not criticize her taste, and went to buy together with her clothes. Perceive quietly needs of the maturing daughter, she seeks to realize the sexuality and it is normal.
4. To improve the relations in family, the daughter should not read lecture and to completely take her life under control. It can end with its leaving the house or a long depression. If the confidential atmosphere reigns in family, the daughter will not do everything in defiance.
5. Earlier people got the first sexual experience at the age of 20 years, now at 14-15. With the daughter it is just necessary to lead a discussion concerning the relations with an opposite sex. Right now it is a high time to tell about existence of a set of venereal diseases and probability of unplanned pregnancy.
6. Will not prevent to present to the daughter the book about sex in the educational purposes. In bookstores the set of literature for teenagers is on sale. Perhaps, for parents there will also be a suitable book which will help to look at the world the teenager's eyes.
7. At such age children begin to make experiments with alcohol and nicotine. It is good if it is single tests for an organism. It is not necessary to snatch on the girl who drank a beer bottle. The daughter tries to show to parents the independence and to prove to herself that she has already the right to arrive as finds necessary.
8. Talk to it, observe behavior, hardly at it "hard drinkings", especially, will begin if in family there were never problems with alcoholism. Gradually this period will pass, and the relations in family will be improved.