People complain that to meet the person entirely perceiving them such what they are actually and the word understanding them with acts, – it is almost impossible. But, maybe, it is worth thinking of himself, but not to pay attention to others?
Instruction
1. It is impossible to be obsessed with problems and far-fetched opinion on a "enemy" environment. So you try "to retire" into oneself, to become the introvert and to minimize communication with the world. Perhaps, your frown and eternally dissatisfied look frighten off people, and when you respond to their inappropriate curiosity roughly, the misunderstanding barrier is formed. Be more ordinary. Meet every day with a smile, despite fatigue, and respond to annoying misunderstanding with a smile. And people to you will stretch and you get to talking. Share intimate with the loved one, and you will hear opinion from outside, get advice. You will feel that you not one on light, and are the one who understands you.
2. In a dispute it is possible to achieve understanding, having resorted to comparisons and indicative stories. Give the known fact from life which will become a weight argument in your advantage.
3. If you feel that you are not wished to be understood, and it is senseless to continue a conversation, you should not be irritated and pass to loud tone, at the same time being broken on shout. Such behavior will only push away your opponent, and mutual understanding will be more difficult to be reached. Change tone. Restrain an ardor. Put a pause in a conversation. While your interlocutor comes round, start talking friendly tone as if there was no hot discussion a minute ago. Explain the point of view and agree, at least partly, with others opinion. So you consider a burning question from the different parties and will begin to understand each other.