The long relations of the guy and girl often lead to acquaintance to parents. However it is necessary to be prepared for this event carefully that then there were no unforeseen situations.
Instruction
1. Remember that it is worth acquainting the guy with mother when between you really serious and strong relations. You do not hurry with the similar decision, and well weigh everything pros and cons. If you after all understood that it needs to be made, accurately ask whether against your young man to get acquainted with members of your family. In case he agrees, lead a similar discussion with mother and tell her that you have the real feelings to the guy and wish parents recognized him.
2. Sometimes it happens so that mother speaks against similar acquaintance. Convince her of sincerity of your relations and tell that it is just necessary for you that mother understood what person is present at life of her daughter. Explain that you need its support and trust, otherwise would hesitate on similar experiments.
3. If your mother agreed to acquaintance to your beloved, tell her about his hobbies in advance a little and that she on the contrary is not pleasant to it that your general conversation did not become unpleasant. The same should be reported also to the guy about the mother. Perhaps, she categorically against the smoking guys or compulsive gamblers, and your beloved just has one of these sins. In that case it has to remain your small secret which will not begin to upset your mother.
4. Choose day for the forthcoming meeting, make a lunch or a dinner and invite the young man home. Remember that acquaintance has to take place in a quiet and friendly situation. At mother it is not necessary to show the feelings, to embrace and kiss the guy. The only thing that you can make is to take it by hand.
5. Take great pain to keep up the conversation. Do not allow long pauses and silence that neither the guy, nor mother began to feel awkwardness and confusion. You can tell together to mother the history of your acquaintance and the beginning of the relations. Help the darling to tell about his hobbies, only do not try to overpraise him, otherwise it can look too suspiciously.
6. During acquaintance of your guy to mother mother does not need to ask at it questions of that, she liked it or not. It is the best of all if you make it after you remain with her alone. If something guarded your mother, discuss with her it, and then you can accurately hint the guy that he should or hold back something at your parents, or to try to change a little completely to correspond to an ideal.