Sooner or later the question arises in the head of the woman in love: whether it is time to make a declaration of love to the elect? Of course, by knightly rules, it is kind of not accepted to do this to the first. But in the world everything changes, and modern ladies are ready for big franknesses and resolute acts to win, hold and get to fall in love the man.
Instruction
1. Before throwing the arms round a neck to the man and to give him all unexpressed love, estimate, the moment which was how suitable for this purpose whether the elect to your words "ripened" and whether there is it such hot and decisive steps of you if still the first did not make a declaration of love to you. Perhaps, he will apprehend your recognition as a hint on the next stage of the relations – it is time to make offer, and will be frightened. And, maybe, he is so shy that hesitated to express that you are a woman of his life. Analyze a situation and begin to act if saw in it need.
2. The one who too changes always loses in love. Remove pride, uncertainty, the principles, fears in the parties. Listen to the feelings. Having opened for the man I smother, you can become much closer to him, but at the same time it is necessary to estimate also degree of risk. Impulsive and unexpected "I love you" sometimes just destroys all charm of the relations. You do not hurry and do not fuss. All of you will manage to tell and prove to the man. And words are for this purpose absolutely optional.
3. The is more senior and the person is more skilled, the he is more careful and more suspicious. To trigger to itself curiosity, having flattered male vanity, quite simply, but here "to attach" him to itself – it is already problematic. Men so value the freedom, the built barchelor life and the habits that they "otprygivat" from any semi-hints on feelings. And most often they retire not with deep feelings, and from the one who "smothers" the love and the requirement of reciprocity ahead of time. Your recognition can be silent and obvious so that will push it to the first resolute actions. What for this purpose is necessary? If you look at it gently, then listen carefully to it, share his emotions, you become for it irreplaceable. Even in inveterate bachelors it is possible to grope an Achilles' heel which it is enough to touch at the right time to subdue it.
4. If you doubt its feelings to yourself, forget about big and pathos words: "I love you", and especially it is not necessary to specify after that: "And you me?". Leave all this for later. Why not to express the sympathy more softly: "You are pleasant to me", "I often think of you", "To me it is good with you" … Behind it there can be any sense, up to the friendly relations. But, if the man tests something to you, then such hints – a magnificent push for development of the relations.