Many can ask a question of your personal records. However whether it is necessary to tell all the truth? Someone asks just like that, someone wants to help. Do not spread everything. Trust only the checked people.
Acquaintances often ask us questions, the answer to which in principle and does not interest them. Norms of communication are that. Phrases "how are you", "as health", "as on the personal front" serve as rather peculiar greeting. Is itIs it worth answering the question "as on the personal front"?
Asked just like that
If this question to you was asked just like that, on the run, you should not tell that to the person about a situation in your house irrespective of positive it or not really. You can smile in reply and also say a stock phrase: "everything is good" or "it is the best of all".
Another matter – your best friend whom you did not see long ago. She can take an interest too in a condition of your love affairs which origin she was a witness. It is possible to tell in short lines to it about the main thing supposedly "I marry, you are invited too", "I left it long ago, we not couple" and in such spirit.
Out of curiosity
If you see that the person too is interested in your affairs, then unambiguously it is also not necessary to answer this question. You do not know, for what purpose you are asked about personal records whether this person wishes well to you therefore it is enough to assure of him that at you everything is normal. If curious does not cease to stick with inquiries to which you do not want to respond at all, it is necessary to tear off it a phrase like "if I need council, I will address you" or "I do not discuss this subject with acquaintances". Let this person will think next time before climbing not in the affairs.
In a friendly circle
Sometimes friends will very painfully wound. For example, you sit on some holiday of friends, almost all came in couples, and you one. Someone can ask: "How are you on the personal front? For you already 30, in marriage it is time". For you it is already a sore subject, and here it. Do not show that you are touched. Safely parry: "Statistically, marriages after 30 break up less often. So to you who married long ago is about what to be disturbed" or "I marry soon, it is a pity that you will not be able to come, we celebrate in Paris". Such answers will not allow to offend you another time and will show your sharp mind.
Close people
And here close people can trust. Mother, the sister, the grandmother – they will ask this question not casually. They can help to find a way out of a difficult situation and it is better for you to be uttered. Having noticed that you have a sad mood or feeling sick, they first of all will think what happens at you wrong in the personal relations. If everything is normal, then hurry up to calm them, having told that you are fine and to you it is not necessary to be anxious. Thank for support.