How to answer difficult questions

How to answer difficult questions

Relationship with people in many respects depends on ability to build dialogue. Depending on situations and acts it is necessary to give answers to difficult, tactless or inconvenient questions. Not to be trapped, it is necessary to call to the aid wit and originality.

Instruction

1. To evade from an otvetava you can almost always tell that you do not wish to answer this question. But such behavior you will provoke more likely suspicion and bewilderment. For example, if ask you "How are you?" or "Why you did not pay the bill?", such answer will look at least strange. Use reception of celebrities which often give streamline or rather general answers in the interviews. For example, "it is hard to say when we stop recording this album, but we use the best efforts", etc.

2. To answer with a question a voproskhoroshy way to put the tactless interlocutor into place or just to take some break to think over the answer. Formulations of counter questions weight: "And why you ask?", "This mere curiosity?", "What do you mean?", "And you?" (is suitable for answers to questions in the spirit of "As you are going to live further?"), etc.

3. OtshutitsyaSushchestvut questions which haunt people out of pure curiosity. Often answers to them become a subject for conversations behind your back. As a rule, they are not so innocent as a simple question: "What newcomer?". Apply sense of humour or even sarcasm. For example, "How old are you?" - "Seventeen, as well as to you", "You are still not married?" - "Do not worry, my second half does not stop search".

4. To prepare the answer zaraneeetot the option, perhaps, will be the most effective. It is actively used in the sphere of policy and business. Assess a situation and in advance think that can ask you. For certain, the majority of loaded questions will concern your "weak" places which to you have to be well-known. Preparation will help you if not to guess a question then to make the answer of several in advance thought over preparations.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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