How to apologize for treason

How to apologize for treason

Sometimes it happens so that the relations in couple develop very well, but once other person unintentionally rushes into your life, and you, losing the head, change the beloved. Treason - the phenomenon rather frequent, but only units manage after that to keep the former relations.

Instruction

1. For a start it is necessary to decide accurately for himself that the fleeting proximity forever will remain in the past, and you any more will never give in to a momentary whim as far as the temptation was high. If you clearly instructed yourself that from now on it will not repeat, now it is necessary to tell all this to the guy or the girl because sooner or later, your soulmate after all learns about treason and it will be better if you admit to it it.

2. For recognition it is necessary to choose the most suitable time and the place. It will be better if the conversation takes place at your place, without presence of strangers. Invite the guy or the girl to yourself, but surely warn that the conversation will be very serious and not too pleasant. Waiting for evening you should not make a romantic dinner by candlelight and to choose a stunning dress. All these attributes now will only do much harm.

3. It is possible to make coffee or is stronger than something as to men happens very difficult to cope with similar information, and the glass of hot drink will help it to collect will in a fist and the girl will hardly refuse alcohol after such recognition. When your darling comes, it is not necessary to rush immediately to him to legs or, on the contrary, to shout that he is guilty, say, did not follow or paid not enough attention. At once everything will destroy such behavior, and the quiet conversation will not turn out.

4. Suggest it to sit down, drink, tell about the feelings to it and that people in the life make the mass of mistakes for which it is necessary to pay dearly. And only after that, admit to your soulmate the mistake. Tell that are ready to pay any price (figuratively, of course) for washing away guilt. Surely put emphasis that it turned out accidentally that you have no feelings, to the person with whom you changed.

5. Most likely, after your recognition the set of unpleasant questions on which you should give answers will follow. The most important – you say sincerely and only the truth. It is not necessary to invent a sad story that you were violently forced to change. People usually feel a lie. If all your words go in all sincerity, perhaps, your darling will forgive you. Here only, whether he will be able to forget about treachery and not to remind you at each opportunity, it is already other question. Remember that the sincerity and true love are capable to overcome all barriers.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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