Quarrels – an integral part of relationship between people and the closer they, the more often between them arise quarrels.
Apology – a way to keep friendship
If the relations are strong and constant, and there are no intentions to leave – means, it is necessary to reconcile and ask forgiveness somehow. The question of how to apologize to the friend, is very important. He is not necessarily adjusted to forgive everything, and there can be also it that the quarrel in general put friendship on the edge of survival. Therefore apologies have to go with all the heart, pride should be forgotten here. It is necessary to explain the causes of a quarrel, perhaps to the friend they seem not as to you at all.
How to keep at apologies?
At apologies surely the friend should look in the face in order that he saw your openness and honesty. It is at the same time possible to track also its reaction: if eyes became warmer, it is necessary to shake hands each other and to stop the conversation which became unnecessary. If the friend looks away or looks cold, it is necessary to learn causes of failure to accept forgiveness, to answer them and once again if there is an opportunity, to apologize.
One more circumstance: as it is correct to apologize to the friend. In this case everything can be spoiled if to try to find also its share of fault in the incident. It is necessary to recognize honestly: Yes. I broke. I did not understand you. I was mistaken.
The old friend – is better new than two
Important also not only that you apologized the considerable value has as it is beautiful to apologize to the friend. It is impossible to push it with a fist in a shoulder and to say: Come on or, giggling, to try to joke: On angry water is carried. The person can take offense even more deeply. The friend should let know as you highly appreciate him that you did not forget how many good he to you made, to let know that you value friendship with it.
If you just deliberate how it is possible to apologize to the friend, then do not postpone until the best times better. The person can scroll in the head offense again and again, bringing it to universal scales. It is possible that he is ready to forgive and wants to make it, but you do not go. Besides, half-words and silence generate alienation.