In the relations of any couple there are quarrels and the moments when your half is offended by you. And if you value the relations and want to return everything to the normal course, then it is just necessary to reconcile with it. For this purpose it is necessary to apologize, for a start.
How to apologize to the girlfriend?
What would not be the cause of a quarrel with the darling, for continuation of the relations it is necessary to reconcile and apologize for what you made or told. But the woman – nature thin and gentle, simple and banal forgive it will be insufficiently. In order that as it is possible to apologize better to the girlfriend, it is necessary to make some important things.
First of all it is necessary to understand what you are guilty of, to apologize, it is necessary to know for what. Then, apologizing, you will have to specify this fault. For the girl important not only apology, she needs to see your repentance and the fact that it to you is not indifferent. If both of you are guilty, you do not speak to her about it at all. At the end the end, you came to be reconciled, but not to accuse.
Do not force it to accept apologies and do not put ultimatums. Even if she under pressure of signs your apologies, then completely she will not forgive you and further will secretly take offense at you as she made it against the will.
Give it time for thoughts. If after your apology she asks time to think, satisfy its request. Sticktoitiveness in this situation to anything, differently it is possible to aggravate situation.
It is very often possible to hear from some men: You are a man, be not a rag, do not apologize. If loves, will have done with the youthful follies and itself will come. It is the wrong position. Your darling too of people, and she also has a self-respect. It is possible that she also will come, but it will not strengthen your relations in any way.
How it is possible to apologize to the girl beautifully?
If simple and sincere forgive a little, then it is necessary to strengthen it pleasant and romantic surprise. For example, light candles and scatter in the apartment petals of roses a path where it will be waited by a romantic dinner. In case degree of your repentance is really big, order a big banner with apologies and place it opposite to its windows. Invite it in restaurant and order the song, previously having stepped on the stage and having asked forgiveness.
Think what is pleasant to it. This information will help to apologize to the girl as much as possible sincerely. If she loves roses, go to apologize with a bouquet of its favourite flowers. She likes to dance, then invite her to slow dance and show the sincere repentance. If she is not afraid to show the feelings on public, apologize on the street, at restaurant, in the park. The main thing that it was sincere and in all sincerity and did not look as subservience. Women emotions and even a drop of insincerity perfectly feel that hour it will be opened.
How to apologize to the girl in VK?
To apologize in VK, also as well as to apologize to the girl in SMS, it is extremely undesirable as in apology the main thing that she saw repentance and sincerity. But if she does not want to see you, does not answer calls and sms or just lives in other city, then the website of VKontakte can great help with it. In VK the mass of tools by means of which it is possible to express the emotions is realized. For example, present it a romantic virtual gift and apologize, having shown your state of mind by means of smilies. Still it is possible to write it verses and to send by means of the message or to paint a picture which you will photograph and will send to the girl.