The serious relations with the girlfriend - it is always not so simple. What strong and light were not feelings, from emergence of small offenses and quarrels all the same nobody is insured. And the offense of your soulmate can sometimes be and not small, but so strong that business can quite terminate in a gap. And in this case it is very important to know how to apologize to the girl if strongly offended. To try to apologize it is possible verbally, through SMS or by means of any beautiful and eloquent act.
How to apologize to the girl if strongly offended her?
The easiest way is to ask forgiveness. As the popular wisdom says: apologize to the woman, you do not even know in what. But psychologists hold the opposite opinion: it is necessary to apologize, but nevertheless to try to find out the offense reason. Of course, the notorious female logic – an animal strange, to be exact it reminds gathering of mixed cockroaches more in the head who suddenly decided to kick up. Also thought up to themselves hypothetical offense in a scanty occasion which for the man in general can't cost the eaten-away egg. You should not report about it to the lady. On the contrary, it is better to try to confess as much as possible sincerely in the ignorance and to assure that now you began to see clearly and are ready to go further on life with widely open eyes. But to go only hand in hand with it, only and favourite and with anybody it is more. And it is not so important what words should be told the girl that she forgave. The main thing is a sincerity of intonations and a look. Also it is not necessary to try to turn everything, seeming to you ephemeral, female offenses for fun. For the girl it can be valid very serious argument for irrevocable parting with you. Playful patronizing will aggravate degree of your fault in her eyes many times.
What to write to the SMS that the girl forgave?
If there is no opportunity to apologize personally, then it is possible to try to make it by means of phone, having sent the message. Here the maintenance of words already matters, the girl will not see expression of your person and intonation of a voice and will not feel. Therefore to decide what exactly to write to the girl that she forgave, very important. It is necessary to begin the message unambiguously with apologies, even from one simple word forgive or excuse. Further – as the imagination will prompt. It is possible to write that you recognize the wrongfulness, to be engaged in self-flagellation (I am a fool), to ask about truce (let's be reconciled, tell how to me to deserve your forgiveness, and I will make everything). And it is better to do without reductions and unclear abbreviations, and ideally – and without grammatical mistakes. Of course, it is possible to count that the girl will write off writing flaws for your extreme nervousness and the shivering fingers (and even the avaricious men's tears dimming eyes). But suddenly she will think that you just sent it the formal reply on duty, without having worked even loss for words for it to be, properly. Then the effect of SMS will be opposite to the desirable.
What it is necessary to make that the girl forgave?
And it is possible not to spend time for a talk at all and to try to resolve the conflict by some unexpected romantic act. To decide what to do that the girl forgave, it is possible based on knowledge of her habits and preferences. For example, it is possible to leave under its door, on a cowl of its car, in a workplace a lovely surprise: a toy, chocolate, the letter with apologies in a beautiful envelope, etc. It is possible to write a word forgive on a heap of balloons and to leave in a visible place where it surely will find them. It is possible to arrange a casual meeting at its favourite restaurant, having secured with support of mutual friends and to invent still a heap of similar things.