Family disagreements and the conflicts are an integral part of life. Their frequency and duration in each case depends on personal features of spouses, but one can be told with full confidence – structurally resolved conflict only strengthens the marriage union.
Instruction
1. In case you were put before sad and strong as steel "I is offended by the fact", remember the most important rule – it is necessary to apologize and ask forgiveness. Perhaps, you will be overflowed now by a bewilderment wave, but it is necessary to work quite so, and as soon as possible. At the time of the quarrel already not so important that became the offense reason, but it is obvious that with this offense something needs to be done. The different threshold of sensitivity and different irritants can cause reaction, different in force and a pole, in each of us. What will seem you a real trifle, for example, to mutter "uga" on the question "do you love me?", can become the small tragedy for your wife. Therefore, returning by the beginning, apologize as soon as you feel that the situation was heated. Already then, when the emotional background will cease, you can together everything rationally to discuss.
2. Of course, at the same time you need to be able to distinguish real offense from mercenary desire to manipulate you and your resources. Criterion for distinctions is the behavior of your wife in various situations. As a rule, people, the living long time under the same roof, very well feel and are able to define a condition of the partner.
3. The further scenario of events will already have character of ritual courtings as having sincerely apologized, you by default restore trust and arrangement of the wife to yourself.
4. The way of apology extended and checked by time will be a presentation of a bouquet of flowers as courtesy. You can apply a note to it if you transmit a bouquet through the courier. But, of course, by rules of etiquette if there is an opportunity, it is necessary to apologize in a personal conversation.
5. As for purchase of material values as atonement of the fault – this point we leave on your discretion as it has character of gaining of the woman by the man and it is not always worth tying him to negative emotions.